What if the person you love most forgot you while you are still standing right in front of them?
LOST IN MEMORY is a gripping science-fiction thriller about love, memory and the terrifying cost of keeping someone alive when the person they are begins to disappear.
In a near-future world, a neurological virus steals memories of the people we love most. Brilliant scientist Dr. Gideon Holt and Nora, the woman closest to him, isolate themselves inside a high-tech bunker. When Gideon becomes infected, the countdown begins. They have exactly seventy-two hours before the virus takes away the memories that connect him to the people he loves, and begins destroying the parts of his mind that make him who he is.
Their only hope is a dangerous, unapproved cure. With time running out, they begin recording their history, trying to preserve the details that made their lives theirs. The small things. The private jokes. The moments neither thought they would ever need to remember for each other.
But the virus takes more than…
After years of teaching Hebrew, I stopped believing that people give up simply because a language is difficult.
I have watched people begin with genuine enthusiasm. They are curious. They want to understand what they hear, read signs in a language they do not yet know, follow a conversation without losing its thread. At first, every new word opens a possibility. Every small discovery makes the next lesson worth attending.
Then the…
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edición en español
Hay personas que leerán este libro porque sienten curiosidad por el sentido. Y hay personas que lo leerán porque algo ya ha desaparecido. Puede que no sepan exactamente qué. Solo saben que la vida solía sentirse diferente.
Algo las sacaba de la cama. Una persona. Un lugar. Una relación. Un rol. Una creencia. Un futuro que podían
Sami Bsoul, PhD
La Psicología de Cómo Funciona el Engaño
Edición en Español
El engaño rara vez es tan simple como una mentira.
A veces, las palabras son verdaderas.
Otras veces, no se dice nada.
En algunos casos, la verdad llega demasiado tarde.
En otros casos, la persona que te engaña se ha
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Édition française
Que se passe-t-il quand la psychologie rencontre la pensée juive autour de la question la plus personnelle qu'un être humain puisse se poser :
Vous vivez avec une question.
Une question que vous posez
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Édition en français
Il y a ceux qui liront ce livre par curiosité pour le sens. Et il y a ceux qui le liront parce que quelque chose a déjà disparu. Ils ne savent peut-être pas exactement quoi. Ils savent seulement que la vie était différente avant.
Quelque chose les faisait autrefois se lever le matin. Une personne. Un lieu. Une relation. Un rôle. Une croyance. Un avenir qu'ils pouvaient
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Deutsche Ausgabe
Es gibt Menschen, die dieses Buch lesen werden, weil sie neugierig auf den Sinn sind. Und es gibt Menschen, die es lesen werden, weil bereits etwas fehlt. Sie wissen vielleicht nicht genau, was. Sie wissen nur, dass das Leben sich früher anders angefühlt hat.
Etwas hat sie einst aus dem
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edizione in italiano
Ci sono persone che leggeranno questo libro perché sono curiose riguardo al significato. E ci sono persone che lo leggeranno perché qualcosa è già scomparso. Potrebbero non sapere esattamente cosa. Sanno solo che la vita un tempo sembrava diversa.
Qualcosa le spingeva ad alzarsi dal letto. Una
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edição em português
O que acontece quando a psicologia encontra o pensamento judaico na pergunta mais pessoal que um ser humano pode fazer:
Você tem vivido com uma pergunta.
Uma pergunta que raramente faz em voz alta.
Uma pergunta que surge quando
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There is a strange thing about people.
We think we know someone long before we actually do.
We see how they behave. We hear what they say.
We notice what they show us.
Then we build a person around those pieces.
Quiet, so they must be shy.
Confident, so they must be secure.
Distant, so they must not care.
Intense, so they must be difficult.
Private, so they must be hiding something.
Ambitious, so they must want more.
Jealous, so they must be insecure.
Calm, so nothing must be happening underneath.
We do this constantly.
We turn behaviour into explanation.
And once we
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edición en español
¿Qué sucede cuando la psicología se encuentra con el pensamiento judío en la pregunta más personal que un ser humano puede hacerse:
¿Quién soy?
Has estado viviendo con una pregunta.
Una pregunta que rara vez haces en voz alta.
Una pregunta que surge cuando el ruido cesa.
Cuando nadie
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edición en Español
No eres como los demás. Nunca lo fuiste. Nunca lo serás.
Sientes con demasiada profundidad. Amas con demasiada intensidad. Sabes cosas que no deberías saber.
La gente te llama intenso. Te llama misterioso. Te llama excesivo.
Se equivocan en todo.
Este no es un libro sobre astrología. Es un libro sobre ti.
Sobre las partes de ti que no tienen sentido. La intensidad que siempre has llevado contigo. La profundidad a la que otros no pueden llegar. La verdad que has cargado toda tu vida.
Es para los Escorpio. Los que nacieron bajo el
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edizione italiana
Cosa succede quando la psicologia incontra il pensiero ebraico sulla domanda più personale che un essere umano possa porsi:
Chi sono?
Stai vivendo con una domanda.
Una domanda che raramente fai ad alta voce.
Una domanda che
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Édition Française
Vous n'êtes pas comme tout le monde. Vous ne l'avez jamais été. Vous ne le serez jamais.
Vous ressentez trop profondément. Vous aimez trop intensément. Vous savez des choses que vous n'avez aucune raison de savoir.
Les gens vous trouvent intense. Ils vous trouvent mystérieux. Ils disent que vous êtes de trop.
Ils ont tort sur toute la ligne.
Ceci n'est pas un livre sur l'astrologie. C'est un livre sur vous.
Sur les parties de vous qui n'ont aucun sens. L'intensité que vous
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Edición en español
Antes de pasar la primera página del libro, dedica unos minutos a leer esto. Los capítulos que siguen cobrarán más sentido, y muchos momentos que al principio parecen sorprendentes se sentirán de pronto inevitables. Considera esto la llave que abre la puerta.
Hay idiomas que aprendes.
Y hay idiomas que, discretamente, comienzan a transformar la manera en que tu mente conecta ideas. El hebreo pertenece a esta segunda categoría.
La primera sorpresa es que el
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Édition française
Avant de tourner la première page du livre, accordez-vous quelques minutes ici. Les chapitres qui suivent auront plus de sens, et de nombreux moments qui semblent surprenants au premier abord paraîtront soudain inévitables. Considérez ceci comme la clé avant d'ouvrir la porte.
Il y a des langues que l'on apprend.
Et il y a des langues qui commencent doucement à remodeler la façon dont votre esprit relie les idées. L'hébreu appartient à la seconde catégorie.
La première surprise, c'est que
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Deutsche Ausgabe
Du bist nicht wie alle anderen. Warst du nie. Wirst du nie sein.
Du fühlst zu tief. Liebst zu heftig. Weißt Dinge, die du nicht wissen kannst.
Die Leute nennen dich intensiv. Sie nennen dich geheimnisvoll. Sie nennen dich zu viel.
Sie liegen bei allem falsch.
Dies ist kein Buch über Astrologie. Es ist ein Buch über dich.
Über die Teile von dir, die keinen Sinn ergeben. Die Intensität, die du schon
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edizione italiana
Prima di voltare la prima pagina del libro, dedica qualche minuto a questa introduzione. I capitoli che seguono acquisteranno più senso, e molti momenti che all'inizio sembrano sorprendenti ti appariranno improvvisamente inevitabili. Considera questa la chiave che apre la porta.
Ci sono lingue che si imparano.
E ci sono lingue che silenziosamente cominciano a rimodellare il modo in cui la tua mente collega le idee. L'ebraico appartiene al secondo tipo.
La prima sorpresa è che
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edição em português
Antes de virar a primeira página do livro, dedique alguns minutos aqui. Os capítulos a seguir farão mais sentido, e muitos momentos que parecem surpreendentes no início de repente parecerão inevitáveis. Considere isto a chave antes da porta.
Existem idiomas que você aprende.
E existem idiomas que silenciosamente começam a remodelar a forma como sua mente conecta ideias. O hebraico pertence ao segundo tipo.
A primeira surpresa é que o
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edizione Italiana
Non sei come tutti gli altri. Non lo sei mai stato. Non lo sarai mai.
Senti troppo profondamente. Ami con troppa intensità. Sai cose che non dovresti sapere.
Le persone ti chiamano intenso. Ti chiamano misterioso. Dicono che sei troppo.
Si sbagliano su tutto.
Questo non è un libro sull'astrologia. È un libro su di te.
Sulle parti di te che non hanno senso. Sull'intensità che hai sempre
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Deutsche Ausgabe
Bevor Sie die erste Seite des Buches aufschlagen, nehmen Sie sich hier ein paar Minuten Zeit. Die folgenden Kapitel werden mehr Sinn ergeben, und viele Momente, die zunächst überraschend erscheinen, werden sich plötzlich unvermeidlich anfühlen. Betrachten Sie dies als den Schlüssel zur Tür.
Es gibt Sprachen, die man lernt.
Und es gibt Sprachen, die stillschweigend beginnen, die Art und Weise umzugestalten, wie Ihr Verstand Ideen verbindet. Hebräisch gehört zur zweiten Art.
Die erste Überraschung ist, dass
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edição em Português
Você não é como todo mundo. Nunca foi. Nunca será.
Você sente com muita profundidade. Ama com muita intensidade. Sabe coisas que não deveria saber.
As pessoas dizem que você é intenso demais. Dizem que você é misterioso. Dizem que você é demais.
Elas estão erradas sobre tudo.
Este não é um livro sobre astrologia. É um livro sobre você.
Sobre as partes de você que não
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Édition française
Ce roman n'est pas né de l'esprit... il est venu des os. De la douleur derrière les côtes.
Il y a eu des moments où j'ai sincèrement cru que je ne pourrais pas continuer. Le poids de tout cela, la vulnérabilité émotionnelle, était accablant.
Mais quand je n'arrivais plus à trouver la force de poursuivre, les jours où j'étais épuisée, j'ai fait quelque chose que je n'avais pas prévu : j'ai fait une pause. Je suis retournée lire les mots que j'avais écrits dans la lettre d'Angel, les mots laissés
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edição em português
Sua vida já está seguindo uma direção que você ainda não nomeou.
A maioria das pessoas acha que escolhe sua direção. Não escolhe. Elas seguem principalmente aquilo que captura sua atenção repetidamente. Atenção é ensaio. O que a mente ensaia se torna familiar. O que se torna familiar fica mais fácil de escolher. A escolha vem por último. O caminho começou muito antes.
Este não é um livro sobre provérbios antigos. É um livro sobre
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edición en español
Este no es un libro sobre el amor.
Es un libro sobre todo lo que la gente llama amor antes de comprenderlo.
Trata sobre cómo algo puede sentirse correcto mientras te lleva sutilmente en la dirección equivocada.
Por qué la intensidad parece verdad.
Por qué la calma parece que falta algo.
Por qué ser elegido
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edición en español
Esta novela no surgió de la mente... surgió desde los huesos. Desde el dolor que habita tras las costillas.
Hubo momentos en los que genuinamente pensé que no podría continuar. El peso de todo, la crudeza emocional, era abrumador.
Pero cuando no encontraba la fuerza para seguir adelante, en los días en que estaba agotada, hice algo que no había planeado: hice una pausa. Volví a leer las palabras que escribí en la carta de Angel, las palabras que los
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Some books are read once and understood.
This is not one of them.
It is meant to be returned to.
Not because it is difficult.
Because it reveals itself in layers.
Different pages will find you at different times.
Different seasons will show you different truths.
This is not a book to finish.
It is a book to live inside.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edizione in italiano
Questo romanzo non è nato dalla mente... è nato dalle ossa. Dal dolore sordo dietro le costole.
Ci sono stati momenti in cui ho davvero pensato di non farcela. Il peso, la crudezza emotiva, era travolgente.
Ma quando non riuscivo a trovare la forza di andare avanti, nei giorni in cui ero prosciugato, ho fatto qualcosa che non avevo pianificato: mi sono fermato. Sono tornato a rileggere le parole che avevo scritto nella
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Deutsche Ausgabe
Was geschieht, wenn Psychologie auf jüdisches Denken trifft – bei der persönlichsten Frage, die ein Mensch stellen kann:
Sie leben mit einer Frage.
Einer Frage, die Sie
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Deutsche Ausgabe
Dies ist kein Buch über die Liebe.
Es ist ein Buch über alles, was Menschen Liebe nennen, bevor sie verstehen, was sie wirklich ist.
Es handelt davon, wie sich etwas richtig anfühlen kann, während es einen unmerklich in die falsche Richtung führt.
Warum Intensität sich wie Wahrheit anfühlt.
Warum Ruhe sich anfühlt, als würde
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edición en español
Tu vida ya avanza en una dirección que no has identificado.
La mayoría de la gente cree que elige su dirección. No es así. En su mayoría, siguen lo que captura su atención de forma repetida. La atención es ensayo. Lo que la mente ensaya se vuelve familiar. Lo que se vuelve familiar se vuelve más fácil de elegir. La elección viene al final. El camino comenzó mucho antes.
Este no es un libro sobre dichos antiguos. Es un libro sobre la
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Deutsche Ausgabe
Dieser Roman entstand nicht im Kopf ... er entsprang den Knochen. Dem Schmerz hinter den Rippen.
Es gab Momente, in denen ich wirklich dachte, ich könnte nicht weitermachen. Die Last, die emotionale Ungeschütztheit, war überwältigend.
Aber wenn mir die Kraft fehlte weiterzugehen, an den Tagen, an denen ich erschöpft war, tat ich etwas, das ich nicht geplant hatte: Ich hielt inne. Ich las die Worte, die ich in Angels Brief geschrieben
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edizione in italiano
La tua vita si sta già muovendo in una direzione che non hai ancora nominato.
La maggior parte delle persone pensa di scegliere la propria direzione. Non è così. Seguono principalmente ciò che cattura ripetutamente la loro attenzione. L'attenzione è ripetizione. Ciò che la mente ripete diventa familiare. Ciò che diventa familiare diventa più facile da scegliere. La scelta arriva per ultima. Il percorso è iniziato molto prima.
Questo non è un libro sui detti antichi. È un libro sui
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Edição em português
Este romance não nasceu da mente... nasceu dos ossos. Da dor atrás das costelas.
Houve momentos em que realmente pensei que não conseguiria continuar. O peso disso, a vulnerabilidade emocional, era avassaladora.
Mas quando não conseguia encontrar forças para seguir em frente, nos dias em que estava esgotado, fiz algo que não havia planejado: pausei. Voltei para ler as palavras que escrevi na carta de Angel, as palavras deixadas
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Music 
Spotify
Most writing about sacred text ends up sounding like explanation.
This one doesn’t.
These songs don’t sit still long enough to become commentary. They move. They return. They cut through familiar language and leave it slightly unsettled, like something remembered wrong but still true.
Some of them speak in urgency. Some in collapse. Some in quiet structure that only reveals itself after repetition. But none of them are trying to be lessons. They don’t resolve into neat meaning at the end.
What they do instead is simpler and harder to ignore.
They stay.
Not as ideas. As pressure, as rhythm, as something that keeps echoing after the page is closed.
People usually call this kind of writing “devotional” or “inspirational” until they actually read it closely enough to notice it isn’t offering comfort in the usual sense.
It’s not asking to be agreed with.
It’s asking to be heard the way repetition is heard when it stops being repetition and becomes recognition.
Hasten to Help Me: Psalm Seventy תהילים ע
Robed in Majesty: Psalm Ninety Three תהילים צג
The Sound of a Pilgrim's Feet: Psalm One Hundred Twenty Two תהילים קכב
God Stands in Judgment: Psalm Eighty Two תהילים פב
The One Whom Armies Praise: Echad Befi Gedudo אֶחָד בְּפִי גְדוּדוֹ
The Menorah Psalm: Psalm Sixty Seven תהילים סז
Glorious Things Are Spoken of You: Psalm Eighty Seven תהילים פז
Hear My Supplication: Eli Ha'azina Le'kol Tachanunai אֵלִי הַאֲזִינָה לְקוֹל תַּחֲנוּנָי
God Called by Signs: El Nikra BeShem Otot אֵל נִקְרָא בְּשֵׁם אוֹתוֹת
The Lord Is at Your Right Hand: Psalm One Hundred Ten תהילים קי
Know Yourself, My Soul: Im Lo Ted'i Nafshi אִם לֹא תֵדְעִי נַפְשִׁי
All the Ends of the Earth: Psalm Ninety Eight תהילים צח
There Is None Like Our God: Ein Keloheinu אֵין כֵּאלֹהינוּ
Steadfast Love and Justice: Psalm One Hundred One תהילים קא
Woman of Valor: Eshet Chayil אֵשֶׁת-חַיִל
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Spotify Music
There are moments when a song feels less like something we hear and more like something we remember, though we cannot say from where.
Whispers to the One Who Lit the Stars moves through places that feel strangely familiar. Quiet battles, unanswered questions, fragile hopes, forgotten parts of ourselves. Not explaining them, only making space for them to be seen.
Psalm 12 – Words of Flattery, Hearts of Deceit – תהילים יב
Psalm 18 – You Are My Shield – תהילים יח
Psalm 22 – My God, Why Have You Forsaken Me – תהילים כב
Psalm 68 – Let God Arise – תהילים סח
Psalm 69 – Save Me, O God – תהילים סט
Psalm 78 – Lessons from the Past – תהילים עח
Psalm 88 – My Soul Is Full of Troubles – תהילים פח
Psalm 89 – I Will Sing of Your Love – תהילים פט
Psalm 104 – Bless the Lord, O My Soul – תהילים קד
Psalm 106 – We Have Sinned – תהילים קו
Psalm 107 – Let the Redeemed of the Lord Say So – תהילים קז
Psalm 118 – Give Thanks to the Lord – תהילים קיח
Psalm 119 – A Love Letter to Your Word – תהילים קיט
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Ecclesiastes is often mistaken for pessimism.
It is not.
What it does is remove the illusion of permanence from things that were never permanent to begin with, and it does so without softening the edges to make it easier to accept.
What remains is not despair, but clarity that refuses to pretend.
Ecclesiastes does not move forward the way stories usually do. It circles, returns, dissolves, and
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Spotify Music
Everything is Futile: הבל הבלים Chapter 1
The Vanity of Pleasure: ניסוי התענוגות Chapter 2
A Time for Everything: לכל זמן ועתChapter 3
Oppression and Loneliness: עושק ויתרון Chapter 4
Fear God, Not Wealth: ייראת אלוקים Chapter 5
The Unfulfilled Life: רעה רבה Chapter 6
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What you plant in sorrow, you will harvest in wonder.
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Twelve seeds. One harvest. No performance. Just the slow truth of growth.
Psalm 126 – Those Who Sow in Tears – תהילים קכ"ו
Psalm 112 – The Happy Person – תהילים קי"ב
Psalm 37 – Fret Not – תהילים ל"ז
Psalm 33 – Rejoice in the Lord – תהילים ל"ג
Psalm 30 – I Will Extol You, O Lord – תהילים ל
Psalm 144 – My Refuge and My Shield – תהילים קמ"ד
Psalm 146 – Put Not Your Trust in Princes – תהילים קמ"ו
Ahavah: A Love Poem to God- אהבה
Agadlecha: I Will Glorify You, God of Every Soul- אֲגַדֶּלְךָ אֱלֹהֵי כָל נְשָׁמָה
Eli Eliyahu: Elijah, Bring Redemption- אֵלִי אֵלִיָּה הַנָּבִיא הָבֵא נָא
El Elohim: My Soul Longs for God - אֶל אֱלֹהִים כָּלְתָה נַפְשִׁי
You Are Truth, O God- אֱמֶת, אֵל אֱמֶת אַתָּה
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Not on a shelf. Not in a drawer. Streaming wherever you are. Wherever you listen.
Psalms and one Sabbath prayer.
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Asader Li'Sudata – The Sabbath Aramaic Prayer – אסדר לסעודתא
Psalm 2 – Why Do the Nations Rage – תהילים ב
Psalm 3 – Lord, How Many Are My Foes – תהילים ג
Psalm 4 – Answer Me When I Call – תהילים ד
Psalm 5 – Give Ear to My Words – תהילים ה
Psalm 14 – The Fool Has Said in His Heart – תהילים י"ד
Psalm 111 – I Will Give Thanks to the Lord – תהילים קי"א
Psalm 113 – Praise the Lord – תהילים קי"ג
Psalm 137 – By the Rivers of Babylon – תהילים קל"ז
Psalm 142 – I Cry Aloud to the Lord – תהילים קמ"ב
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The full album is available on all streaming platforms.
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Track listing:
Lekha Eli Teshuqati – My God, My Desire – לך אלי תשוקתי
Psalm 13 – From Despair to Trust – תהילים י"ג
Psalm 15 – Who May Dwell in Your Tent, O Lord – תהילים ט"ו
Psalm 27 – The Lord is My Light and My Salvation – תהילים כ"ז
Psalm 92 – It is Good to Give Thanks – תהילים צ"ב
Psalm 102 – Hear My Prayer, O Lord – תהילים ק"ב
Psalm 111 – Praise the Lord – תהילים קי"א
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The full album is available on all streaming platforms. Below are the individual tracks.
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Psalm 1 – Blessed is the Man – תהילים א
Psalm 21 – A Psalm of David – תהילים כ"א
Psalm 23 – The Lord is My Shepherd – תהילים כ"ג
Psalm 130 – From Depths I Call You – תהילים ק"ל
Psalm 150 – Hallelujah – תהילים ק"נ
Shehecheyanu – Mighty of Powers – שהחיינו
Berikh Shemeh – Blessed Be His Name – בריך שמיה
Yedid Nefesh – Beloved of the Soul – ידיד נפש
Tefilat HaDerech – The Traveler's Prayer – תפילת הדרך
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The complete text of the Song of Songs is available as a musical setting.
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Each of the eight chapters has been sung in Hebrew, preserving the original language and cadence of the ancient poetry.
My music does not explain the text. It makes room for it.
This project is an attempt to present the Song of Songs in Hebrew as faithfully as I am able. The value is in the words themselves.
Chapter 1 – Let Him Kiss Me – יִשָּׁקֵנִי
Chapter 2 – Rose of Sharon – חֲבַצֶּלֶת הַשָּׁרוֹן
Chapter 3 – Daughters of Jerusalem – בְּנוֹת יְרוּשָׁלַיִם
Chapter 4 – A Garden Enclosed – גַּן נָעוּל
Chapter 5 – Sick with Love – חוֹלַת אַהֲבָה
Chapter 6 – I Am My Beloved's – אֲנִי לְדוֹדִי וְדוֹדִי לִי
Chapter 7 – Return, O Shulammite – שׁוּבִי שׁוּבִי הַשּׁוּלַמִּית
Chapter 8 – Love Is Strong as Death – עַזָּה כַמָּוֶת אַהֲבָה
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The EP titled Song of Songs is available on streaming platforms.
The material is based on the biblical text of the same name. Each track corresponds to a chapter from the original source.
Streaming options include Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon Music, YouTube Music, Tidal..
This project is an attempt to present the Song of Songs in Hebrew as faithfully as I am able. The value is in the words themselves.
My music does not explain the text. It makes room for it.
🎧 Listen here:
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All psalms sung in the original Hebrew, without ornament. Each track is a musical setting of the ancient text. The aim is not performance, but preservation.
Psalm 1 – Blessed is the Man – תהילים א
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Psalm 2 – Why Do the Nations Rage – תהילים ב
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Psalm 3 – Lord, How Many Are My Foes – תהילים ג
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Psalm 4 – Answer Me When I Call – תהילים ד
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Psalm 5 – Give Ear to My Words – תהילים ה
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ספר שיר השירים השלם של כל שמונת הפרקים
פרק א – ישקני
פרק ב – חבצלת השרון
פרק ג – בנות ירושלים
פרק ד – גן נעול
פרק ה – חולת אהבה
פרק ו – אני לדודי ודודי לי
פרק ז – שובי שובי השולמית
פרק ח – אהבה עזה כמות
האזינו לאלבום המלא בפלטפורמה המועדפת עליכם
האלבום המלא זמין בכל פלטפורמות ההזרמה (סטרימינג)
תהילים
אשרי האיש: תהילים א
מזמור לדוד: תהילים כ"א
ה' רועי: תהילים כ"ג
ממעמקים קראתיך: תהילים ק"ל
הללויה: תהילים ק"נ
תפילות
בריך שמיה: ברוך שם כבודו
ידיד נפש: אין עוד מלבדו
שהחיינו: אדיר הכוחות
תפילת הדרך: השם ישמרך מכל רע
🎶 האזינו לאלבום המלא בפלטפורמה המועדפת עליכם
What You Actually Control | Sami Bsoul
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
You cannot control the storm. You can control how you stand.
Here is the stoic‑CBT framework that separates what is yours from what is not.
Stoic dichotomy of control (Epictetus): peace comes from focusing only on what is up to you.
Cognitive reappraisal (Gross, 2002): you cannot stop the first feeling, but you can choose the second thought.
Boundary setting: where you place people is an act of internal control.
These 8 points are not a prayer.
They are a daily practice. Say them until they become reflex.
#psychology #stoicism #cbt #selfcontrol #psychstatic
@psychstatic You cannot control the storm. You can control how you stand. Here is the stoic‑CBT framework that separates what is yours from what is not. Stoic dichotomy of control (Epictetus): peace comes from focusing only on what is up to you. Cognitive reappraisal (Gross, 2002): you cannot stop the first feeling, but you can choose the second thought. Boundary setting: where you place people is an act of internal control. These 8 points are not a prayer. They are a daily practice. Say them until they become reflex. #psychology #stoicism #cbt #selfcontrol #psychstatic ♬ original sound - Psyche
The weight of what you give
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
You think you love them. But maybe you are just exhausted from giving.
Here is the psychology of why unilateral investment feels like love, and why it is not.
The investment model of commitment (Rusbult, 1980) shows that the more you put into a relationship, time, emotion, sacrifice, the more attached you become.
Not because they earned it. Because your own effort traps you.
But love requires mutual investment. When only one person builds, the other is not a partner.
They are a beneficiary. And your brain confuses the pain of giving with the promise of return. That is not love. That is a one‑person economy.
And it will never feel like home.
Real love is measured by how hard they try back.
#psychology #love #investmentmodel #mutuality #psychstatic
@psychstatic You think you love them. But maybe you are just exhausted from giving. Here is the psychology of why unilateral investment feels like love, and why it is not. Under "more" (the wow that lands deep): The investment model of commitment (Rusbult, 1980) shows that the more you put into a relationship, time, emotion, sacrifice, the more attached you become. Not because they earned it. Because your own effort traps you. But love requires mutual investment. When only one person builds, the other is not a partner. They are a beneficiary. And your brain confuses the pain of giving with the promise of return. That is not love. That is a one‑person economy. And it will never feel like home. Real love is measured by how hard they try back. #psychology #love #investmentmodel #mutuality #psychstatic ♬ original sound - Psyche
Why Narcissists Are Drawn to You
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
Narcissists do not target the weak. They target the warm.
Here is why empathetic souls are magnets, and why that is not your flaw.
Empathic accuracy (Ickes, 1997): ability to read others' emotions. Empaths assume the good is there. Even when there is no evidence for it. They project their own goodness onto others. That is not naivety. That is how empathy works.
Narcissistic supply: narcissists need admiration. Empaths provide it freely.
Exploitation of prosocial traits: high empathy individuals are more likely to be targeted by manipulators because of their willingness to give second chances.
Your empathy is a gift. But a gift is not meant to be stolen. It is meant to be received by people who can hold it without breaking it.
The right person will not take your light. They will stand next to it.
Most people never learn to hold that kind of warmth without breaking it. That is their loss, not yours.
Your warmth is not an invitation. Learn to close the door to those who would exploit it.
@psychstatic Narcissists do not target the weak. They target the warm. Here is why empathetic souls are magnets, and why that is not your flaw. Empathic accuracy (Ickes, 1997): ability to read others' emotions. Empaths see potential for good even when it is not real. Narcissistic supply: narcissists need admiration. Empaths provide it freely. Exploitation of prosocial traits: high empathy individuals are more likely to be targeted by manipulators because of their willingness to give second chances. Your empathy is a gift. But a gift is not meant to be stolen. It is meant to be received by people who can hold it without breaking it. The right person will not take your light. They will stand next to it. Your warmth is not an invitation. Learn to close the door to those who would exploit it. #narcissism #psychstatic ♬ original sound - Psyche
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
Someone can know everything about you and still never once make you feel understood.
Someone can know your name, your habits, your history, your patterns, and still never actually feel who you are.
Understanding is emotional contact. Many relationships survive on
@sami.bsoul They know your name. Your habits. Your history. Your triggers. You tell them something you have never told anyone. A fear you buried years ago. A wound you still carry. They nod. Then they ask what is for dinner. That is not malice. That is mentalizing failure. They can describe you perfectly and still miss you completely. Being known is not the same as being felt. And that is why you feel lonelier inside such relationship than you ever did alone. Because proximity without attunement is not intimacy. It is a museum. Everything is labeled. Nothing is alive. You are not crazy. You are just with someone who learned your patterns but never learned your pain.#whenyousayiloveyou ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
People lose love not only by rejection, but by silence.
Some people do not lose love because they chose the wrong person.
They lose it because they
@sami.bsoul Love isn't lost by the wrong person. It's lost by the words you never spoke. The mechanism: fantasy protection. Unspoken love can still become anything. Spoken love becomes real. Your brain chooses the fantasy. That's not depth. That's avoidance. The silence doesn't keep possibilities open. It becomes the decision.#whenyousayiloveyou ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
Emotionally intelligent people will believe you when you say "I love you."
Then they will watch what you do next. And they will not confuse the two.
This sounds like a paradox. It is not. It is a
@sami.bsoul Emotionally intelligent people believe "I love you", then watch what you do next. Psychology: Bayesian trust updating. Words are weak evidence (2% weight). Actions are strong (50%+). Diagnosticity, saying it costs nothing. Showing up when it's hard? That's signal. The error? Treating words as a contract, not a data point. Update your belief, not your interpretation. #whenyousayiloveyou #emotionallyintelligent ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
Two Patterns, One Illusion
Everyone talks about toxic people. Few name the mechanism.
So let's name them. Two configurations that turn love into a loop you cannot break. One is clinically pathological. The other is a normal attachment variant that becomes destructive only in intimate contexts. They are not the same. But they produce
@sami.bsoul Narcissistic relationships follow a loop: idealize, devalue, discard, return. Why? A failure of object constancy- they cannot hold both good and bad images of you at once. You become all bad the moment you have a need. The result: you chase approval that never sticks. Watch for the pattern, not the apology. Narcissistic pathology involves a structural deficit in object constancy. When you express a need, their internal representation of you splits from "all good" to "all bad." Devaluation follows. You are not the cause. You are the mirror. The test: repeated behavior across three instances. That's your data.#whenyousayiloveyou ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
Everyone chases the origin of words. Etymology. First use. Ancient roots. I'm also into that much. But here it is not my question.
My question: Where do words go when they are out of people's mouths? Why do the same words land like a punch in one person's head and vanish like smoke in another's?
Here's the mechanism.
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When You Say “I Love You”: The Psychology of Misreading Love
You didn’t fall in love. You fell into something that felt like it.
If you have to interpret it, something is already missing.
A psychological book about how people misread love, confuse feeling with meaning, and stay in what was never clear.
It follows love in silence, in waiting, in overthinking, and in the moments where something feels real before it is understood.
It shows how attachment forms before clarity, why intensity feels like truth, and how confusion is often mistaken for depth. Once you see the difference, you stop calling everything love.
The brain can confuse emotional activation with relational safety. Early intensity can create the feeling of familiarity without the stability that real understanding requires. Real connection develops through repeated, consistent experiences over time. Fast Recognition Isn’t Real Understanding. #whenyousayiloveyou
@sami.bsoul The brain can confuse emotional activation with relational safety. Early intensity can create the feeling of familiarity without the stability that real understanding requires. Real connection develops through repeated, consistent experiences over time. Fast Recognition Isn’t Real Understanding. #whenyousayiloveyou ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
''Psychology Does Not Lie: The Truth'' It names what was done to you. It names what you did to survive. It shows you the difference between who you are and who you became around people who could not hold you. And then it gives you back yourself.
This book is for you.
But if you see someone really dear to you in every chapter, do not tell them they need it.
Just leave it where they could find it.
What feels obvious now wasn’t visible then. The brain doesn’t learn through advice, it learns through experience. That’s why most clarity comes after the damage is already done. Clarity rarely comes before the mistake. It comes from it. You only see it clearly now because you already went through what it cost you. You don’t miss the signs because you’re blind. You miss them because you haven’t learned them yet. And the brain usually learns… after it pays for it. #psychologydoesnotlie
@sami.bsoul What feels obvious now wasn’t visible then. The brain doesn’t learn through advice, it learns through experience. That’s why most clarity comes after the damage is already done. Clarity rarely comes before the mistake. It comes from it. You only see it clearly now because you already went through what it cost you. You don’t miss the signs because you’re blind. You miss them because you haven’t learned them yet. And the brain usually learns… after it pays for it. #psychologydoesnotlie ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
Nothing is wrong with you
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Nothing Is Wrong With You: A Psychology of Quiet Strength, Inner Calm, and Becoming Who You Are
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
This book is meant to be read slowly.
Meant to meet you where you are.
Meant to remind you of what you already carry.
Nothing is wrong with you.
And you don’t need to become someone else to prove it.
Owning your light doesn't mean shining harder. It means stopping the apology for existing clearly.
This is what happens when worth gets tied to conditions early on. When being loved, accepted or simply left in peace depended on how useful, calm, successful or strong you could be. The mind adapts. It builds a quiet rule: I am okay only when I can show it. So you start collecting proof. You explain yourself carefully. You achieve. You stay composed. You make things easier for others. Not because it feels true but because it feels necessary. Psychology has a clear name for this pattern. It is a form of conditional self-worth shaped by early reinforcement. When approval is inconsistent or tied to performance, the self does not stabilize. It becomes something you manage. Something you defend. Something that always feels one step away from being questioned again. And here is the cost. The nervous system does not experience this as growth. It experiences it as pressure. Constant self monitoring keeps you in a low-grade state of threat. Am I enough now? Did I do it right? Should I say more? Less? Be better? Over time this does not build confidence. It erodes it. Because confidence needs something solid to stand on. And if your value always depends on the next piece of evidence there is no ground. Only effort. That tired part in you is not lack of discipline. It is not failure. It is the part that sees the truth. That no amount of proving ever settles the question for long. Real change does not come from finding better arguments for your worth. It comes from stepping out of the courtroom entirely. Worth was never meant to be a performance under review. It does not rise when you succeed or fall when you struggle. The shift happens when you stop organizing your life around being approved of and start tolerating the discomfort of not explaining, not proving not earning your place every moment. At first that feels wrong. Even dangerous. Because the system you learned was built on the belief that without effort, you disappear. But you do not. What actually begins to disappear is the constant tension. The scanning. The quiet fear of being exposed as not enough. And in that space something more stable has a chance to form. Not a louder version of confidence. A quieter one. The kind that doesn’t need witnesses.
@sami.bsoul This is what happens when worth gets tied to conditions early on. When being accepted or simply left in peace depends on how useful, calm, successful, or strong you can be. The mind adapts. It builds a quiet rule: I’m okay only when I can show it. So you start collecting proof. You explain yourself carefully. You achieve. You stay composed. You make things easier for others. Not because it feels true, but because it feels necessary. Over time, this doesn’t build confidence. It wears it down. Because when your value depends on the next piece of evidence, there is no ground. Only effort. The tired part in you isn’t lazy. It’s exhausted from constantly having to prove something that was never meant to be measured this way. And that’s why it never feels settled.#nothingiswrongwithyou ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
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Hijacked by Feeling: The Hidden Forces Driving Every Feeling
This book answers the questions you've been asking yourself in the dark:
“Why do I feel nervous before nothing happens?”
“Why small stressors feel catastrophic?”
“Why do I overreact to small things?”
“Why does calm feel empty?”
“Why do emotions control me?”
“How to stop reacting impulsively to feelings”
“Why do I always pick the same type in love?”
“Why calm relationships feel boring?”
“Why I feel jealous for no reason?”
“Why seeing others stressed makes me anxious?”
“Why my mind predicts problems that aren’t there?”
“Why I feel anxious when nothing is wrong”
“How to stop being hijacked by feelings?”
“Why emotions feel urgent but are wrong?”
@sami.bsoul wild vs free. horse. You are not choosing your direction. You are choosing the feeling that seems safest to follow. Freedom begins the moment you stop trusting every feeling that tells you where to run. From ''Hijacked by Feeling: The Hidden Forces Driving Every Feeling''#hijackedbyfeeling ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
Nothing Is Wrong With You: A Psychology of Quiet Strength, Inner Calm, and Becoming Who You Are
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
This book is meant to be read slowly.
Meant to meet you where you are.
Meant to remind you of what you already carry.
Nothing is wrong with you.
And you don’t need to become someone else to prove it.
Owning your light doesn't mean shining harder. It means stopping the apology for existing clearly.
@sami.bsoul Owning your light doesn't mean shining harder. It means stopping the apology for existing clearly.#nothingiswrongwithyou ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
Do Big Things Always Stay Big?: The Psychology of Scale, Memory, and Moving On 
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You’ve survived things your mind can no longer measure.
Moments that once felt infinite, grief that eclipsed your sky, shame like a second skin, joy so bright it broke you. But now? They float somewhere behind you. Smaller. Blurred. As if time has sanded them down without asking for permission.
And yet, they shaped you. Or did they?
When You Stop: The Psychology of Outgrowing the Lies You Built Your Life On
When You Stop: The Psychology of Outgrowing the Lies You Built Your Life On
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
It is a book about what collapses when healing is no longer an excuse.
This is a psychology book for people who are tired of explaining themselves, tired of waiting, tired of protecting stories that once kept them safe but now keep them small.
Read it if you are ready to lose excuses.
Leave it if you’re still looking for reassurance.
@sami.bsoul Being nice isn’t the same as being good. Nice avoids tension. Nice seeks approval. Nice is often anxiety dressed as virtue. Psychology calls it conflict avoidance. Sometimes even the fawn response. Good is different. Good has boundaries. Good tolerates discomfort. Good can say no without losing himself. This isn’t about becoming harsh. It’s about becoming internally anchored. Because a man who depends on approval will always be controlled by whoever withholds it. #whenyoustop ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
Psychology of Power: How People Manipulate, Frame Reality, and Avoid Accountability
A book that names what you've felt but couldn't explain.
By Sami Bsoul, PhD
Control is most stable when the target believes they are acting freely. Psychology of power: How people manipulate..
@sami.bsoul Manipulation is the strategic use of uncertainty. Control is most stable when the target believes they are acting freely. Then, manipulation succeeds when you start self-correcting before they have to. Trauma bonding is not weakness. It’s stress chemistry repeated often enough to feel like connection. The body confuses emotional volatility with significance. #psychologyofpower ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
I Had to Turn the Light On
By Sami Bsoul
This isn’t a book you read.
It’s a space you enter.
@sami.bsoul Powerful excerpt from the book ''I Had to Turn the Light On'' on self-care, protecting your energy, setting boundaries, and remembering your own light. #SelfCare #Ihadtoturnthelighton #creatorsearchinsights #bookreview #tiktokbook ♬ original sound - Sami Bsoul
You’ve felt invisible in a room full of people.
You’ve given too much, stayed too long, and wondered why your energy drains faster than you can refill it.
You’ve hidden your brilliance, softened your edges, and whispered apologies for existing.
I Had to Turn the Light On is for the ones who are ready to stop shrinking, stop justifying, and start living fully.
It doesn’t offer shallow advice or empty affirmations.
It gives you clarity, honesty, and permission, permission to see the truth, to trust yourself, to set boundaries, and to reclaim the energy, freedom, and life that’s always been yours.
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This is Chava’s story. A young Jewish girl whose innocence is shattered by the rise of the Nazi regime. Trapped in a nightmare, holding on to the last thread of music, the last whisper of her family’s love.
Chava was a child when the world turned to ashes.
The music died first.
Then the names.
Then the faces.
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Hotel California: Stories from the Edge of the World
For the ones who arrive broken… and don’t leave the same 201
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The hotel isn’t on any map. But when you're lost enough, it finds you.
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This novel didn’t come from the mind, it came from the bones. From the ache behind the ribs.
There were times I genuinely thought I couldn’t continue writing. The weight of it, the emotional rawness, is overwhelming.
But when I couldn’t find the strength to keep writing, on the days I was drained, I did something I hadn’t planned: I paused. I went back to read the words I wrote in Angel’s letter, and the guests’ letters, the ones they left behind for Sam.
Each time, they gave me just enough breath to write the next sentence.
Not just energy, but purpose.
Because these pages carry a truth that doesn’t scream, but stays.
It’s something you’ll carry long after the last page.
In life, we all seek something, or someone, that grounds us. For me, in this phase of my journey, it was this story. For you, it might be something else. But trust that, in the end, you’ll find what you’re searching for, just as the characters in this novel found their way.
The most powerful stories are often the quietest, the ones that unfold in the spaces between words, in glances exchanged across a table, in the lingering scent of cedar, cinnamon, and freshly baked bread after the tea has gone cold.
There’s a hotel somewhere in the desert, maybe you’ve passed by it without noticing, or perhaps it only appears when you need it most. The lights are warm, the doors always open, and inside, time seems to stretch and bend.
A deeply moving exploration of human connection and loss.
A tender, transformative tale of healing and self-discovery.
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This is a book about humor.
A lot of humor, the kind that sneaks up on you in a claims report and makes you laugh, then wince, then wonder how your own life hasn’t ended up on paper yet.
Meet Sam, claims investigator and
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Taboo
They tell you not to look. So you look.
They tell you not to ask. So you ask.
They tell you not to touch, not to think, not to wonder, and in that moment, the
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The Taxi Driver
Let me say this right from the start: if you don’t usually enjoy reading books, The Taxi Driver might just change your mind.
Sometimes, life moves so quickly, it's easy to forget that the most profound moments happen in the simplest exchanges. Every day, we rush through our routines, our minds buzzing with tasks, while the world around us keeps turning at its own pace. But what if, for just a moment, we allowed ourselves to slow down and really see the people we pass by? What if we listened, truly listened, to their stories, not as interruptions to our
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The Psychology of Art
Have you ever stood before a painting and felt something you couldn’t explain? A pull, a pang, a quiet stirring in your chest, something that felt like it was speaking to a part of you that words could never reach?
Art has a way of bypassing the rational mind and speaking directly to the soul. It doesn’t
“The Soul of Hebrew” is not just a book, it’s my journey, and now, it can be yours too.
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Since 2001, teaching Hebrew has been more than just a profession for me, it's been a deeply rewarding experience, where each lesson offers an opportunity to share not only the technicalities of the language but also its soul.
This profound connection to Hebrew’s beauty, its rich history, its nuances, and its ability to convey deep meaning with such simplicity, has led me to view teaching Hebrew not as a job, but as a passion.
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The Psychology of Hidden Meanings
In every conversation, there’s a hidden language that shapes decisions,
emotions, and power, one that’s felt but never spoken.
Once you learn to read it, you’ll unlock a world where
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You’ve been told that uncertainty is something to fear. To avoid. To outsmart. Plan more. Prepare harder. Control what you can. But what if that’s not the answer?
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Language changes, but wisdom remains. I wrote this book because I believe words shape minds, and those who understand them shape the world.
This book explores the depth and beauty of Hebrew through
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Gen Z doesn’t need another lecture. They don’t need another “back in my day” speech or another list of reasons why they’re too sensitive, too distracted, or too unrealistic. What do they need? Someone who listens. Actually listens. Not the kind of listening where you’re
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"Men, Women, and the Art of Being Absurd" offers a hilariously fresh perspective on the eternal contrast between the sexes, an age-old tale told with
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לא ברור אם זה הכאב שמתפשט בגוף שלהם, או השקט המוזר ששורר מסביבם, אבל משהו לא בסדר איתם. הם לא מתקרבים אליכם ממש, ובכל זאת, אפשר להרגיש את האצבעות שלהם. את העיניים שורפות, את הריח המוכר, הריח של מניפולציה. העולם הזה, העולם של אנשים קטנים, לא מתנהל בחלל ריק. תמיד יש מישהו שדוחף, מסובב את החוטים, משחק במשחקים שלא מובנים. הם מחזיקים את הכאב בידיים. הם רעילים, והם כל כך קטנים שלא יודעים איך להימלט, אלא דרככם.
The Armor You Think You Have
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This book is the unfiltered friend you wish you had, the one who speaks hard truths without hesitation. It’s a raw exploration of self-awareness, vulnerability, and the discomfort of confronting personal truths. Fake Emotional Shield forces you
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I say humor is the only medicine that you can enjoy without any concern for undesired side effects.
This book is dedicated to all those who appreciate the profound impact of humor in our lives.
Discover the Heartbeat of a Language
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Maybe you’re just starting to learn Hebrew, curious about its beauty. Maybe you’ve studied for years but still feel
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Tu nájdeš desiatky viet, ktoré ti pomôžu zlepšiť hebrejčinu každý deň. Jeden hebrejský výrok denne – cesta na zlepšenie tvojich hebrejských zručností! Každý deň sa naučíš novú vetu, obohatíš svoju slovnú zásobu a zlepšíš porozumenie jazyku.
Jeden nový výrok denne znamená, že
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What makes Hebrew so unique? It’s not just its ancient roots or rich history, it’s the very essence of how the language works. Unlike many other languages, Hebrew is a שפה מהותית, an essential language. Every word, every letter, carries intentionality and depth.
Think about this: in many languages, a word is often just a label. Two people might agree to call a dog “dog,” and that’s that. But in Hebrew, it’s a
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I could write long and endless texts about what makes a good student and who qualifies as a good teacher.
But I won't.
Instead, I'll quote something brief, concise, that I deeply believe in and that says it all:
לֹא הַבַּיְשָׁן לָמֵד, וְלֹא הַקַּפְּדָן מְלַמֵּד (Source: Avot Chapter 2 Mishnah 5)
"The shy cannot learn, and the impatient cannot teach." – Ethics of the Fathers, Chapter 2, Mishnah 5
This simple yet profound statement captures the essence of both the
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Psychology Tales: A Revolution in Human Potential invites readers to explore the transformative evolution of psychological thought.
This engaging and insightful book offers a fresh perspective on the history of psychology, from ancient philosophical musings to contemporary practices.
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Real Talk: Inside the Psyche captures the silent feeling between the seen and unseen aspects of human experience.
Through reflections, it reveals the multiple layers of identity, inner struggle, and personal transformation.
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It is expected that I provide a few lines to convince you that this book is truly a good purchase and worth reading.
However, I will not do that. Instead, I'll share with you one belief of mine.
There's an approach that suggests people don't really know what they want, and you can put anything in front of them, and they'll buy it. I don't subscribe to this notion.
I believe people do know what kind of book they're seeking.
So, if you're reading these lines, it's likely because this book aligns with what you're looking for, or at least comes close to it.
If you've stumbled upon this book by coincidence, then I believe there are no coincidences in life, and everything has its meaning. Perhaps the universe brought you to this book.
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You will find in the pages of "Crazy Poems, Insane Prose," that reality unfolds in its raw.
It unfolds in unvarnished form.
No masks, no pretenses.
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My purpose of writing this book is to give people the opportunity to get some insights about clinical psychology like never been offered before.
The book is full of knowledge about the fascinating world of clinical psychology. It covers almost everything you need to know about the field, including examples of researches and findings.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
"The Psychology Wonders" is your guided tour through the Top 100 iconic psychological experiments, famous theories, and significant studies. This book is accessible to curious minds of all ages, with no exceptions. Each psychological experiment is introduced along with the crucial theories that shaped it.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
In the magical world of "The Magic of Intelligence" you're about to embark on an incredible adventure like no other.
This journey unveils the fascinating realm of intelligence, designed to captivate curious minds. But here's the amazing secret: this book isn't just for a specific age group; it's a timeless source of wisdom and inspiration for readers of all ages.
What's even cooler about this book is that it uses colourful text to highlight important stuff. It makes it easier to remember and keeps your attention.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Welcome to the world of 'EmoGenius: A Teen's Guide to Emotions.' This book is your guide on a journey through emotions. You'll find out why feelings matter and how to handle happiness, sadness, anger, and fear. We'll help you name your emotions, understand them better, and connect with others by being empathetic and communicating effectively.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Hey there, young thinkers!
Are you curious about how your brain works?
Do you want to become a super learner and thinker?
Well, we've got something special just for you – a fantastic book called
"Cognitive Psychology Made Simple for Kids and Teens"
Why It's So Cool?
Sami Bsoul, PhD
''The Secrets Inside Your Head- Psychology for Kids and Teens''
Ever had a moment when your child asked you about psychology, and you weren't sure how to explain it? Don't worry, we've got your back. Whether you're a parent, a teacher, or someone who's always curious, this book is a must-have. It's called "The Secrets Inside Your Head" for a reason. It's like a secret door that opens up the amazing world of psychology, and it's waiting for every generation to explore, from kids to teenagers to adults.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Iba keď dávaš bez očakávania niečo na oplátku, keď prijímaš, aby si mohol dať ďalej, a keď tvoje ego nie je súčasťou toho, čo robíš, až vtedy kráčaš správnou cestou.
Nedostatok pochopenia všeobecnej reality sa,
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Na rozdiel od názoru Sókrata, ktorý slávne veril, že je iba pôrodnou asistentkou mysle svojich žiakov, pomáhajúc im „porodiť“ to, čo už bolo hlboko skryté v ich dušiach, židovská tradícia ponúka
Sami Bsoul, PhD
"221" is an intricate exploration that delves deep into the cosmos, uncovering the universal distinct combination of traits that define your astrological identity. With careful analysis, we've compared a staggering 221 qualities across all zodiac signs, offering a novel perspective on how these traits manifest within different individuals.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
In a world where curiosity and self-discovery have no separation, "221" emerges as a groundbreaking book that dares to explore the depths of your astrological identity like never before. If you've ever pondered your place within the cosmic place of zodiac signs, this is your chance to unearth the intriguing truths that define who you are. Brace yourself to uncover fresh revelations about your character and motivations, a way of reading that's both enlightening and interesting.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
In this video, we you can see how each zodiac sign reacts uniquely to the unexpected moment of slipping on a banana peel. Each sign’s reaction highlights their personality traits and how they handle surprises, making for an entertaining and insightful exploration of astrology in everyday situations.
Aries reacts with surprise and embarrassment, exclaiming about the suddenness of the fall.
Taurus is practical, immediately concerned about the source of the problem and who's responsible.
Gemini finds humor in the situation, joking about turning it into a dance move.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
It is important to emphasize that astrology is not scientifically validated in the same way as astronomy. Astronomy, first and foremost, is a rigorous scientific discipline. It encompasses the meticulous examination of celestial entities such as stars, planets, galaxies, and beyond. Astronomers employ advanced instruments and methodologies to understand the fundamental workings of the universe. Their work contributes to our knowledge of cosmic phenomena and has paved the way for groundbreaking discoveries in fields like astrophysics.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
In the depths of Scorpio's soul resides a treasure trove of emotions, an unbreakable dedication to their chosen path, and an uncompromising strength that often remains concealed beneath a composed exterior.
I invite you on a profound reading into the enigmatic world of Scorpio in the book "Scorpio: Depth, Intensity, and Beyond."
Sami Bsoul, PhD
"Leo: Born to Shine" is your guide to understanding the world of Leos, covering everything from their leadership qualities and ambitions to their life challenges and how to overcome them. This book is a comprehensive exploration of Leo individuals, delving into their cosmic personality traits, relationships, strengths, and creative expressions.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
"Libra: Balancing Acts" is a book like no other, thoughtfully crafted to resonate with Libra individuals on a profound level. It is not just another zodiac book but a unique exploration of the complexities and virtues that define the Libra personality.
Tailored Just for You- This book isn't a one-size-fits-all; it's designed to resonate with those who appreciate a tailored and exclusive perspective.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
"Gemini: The Art of Dualism" is an enlightening exploration crafted exclusively for the inquisitive minds of Gemini. This unique book delves into the multifaceted nature of Gemini individuals, embracing their inherent duality and celebrating their insatiable thirst for knowledge and change.
Designed specially for You- This book isn't for the masses; it's created to connect intimately with those who value an individualized and exclusive approach.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
"Taurus: Grounded in Beauty" is a one-of-a-kind book that delves deep into the psychological being of the Taurus zodiac sign, offering a comprehensive exploration of their inner world and unique traits. Unlike conventional zodiac books, this captivating volume goes beyond surface descriptions to uncover the intricate layers that shape the Taurus personality.
Expressly Created for You- This book isn't for just anyone; it's thoughtfully created for those who cherish an individualized and exclusive perspective.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
"Virgo Creating Beauty" is a unique and comprehensive book that delves into the multifaceted world of the Virgo zodiac sign. Unlike typical astrology books, this engaging and insightful masterpiece offers a fresh perspective, intertwining astrology, psychology, and self-discovery to provide readers with a transformative journey into the heart of the Virgo personality.
Crafted for Your Individuality- This book isn't intended for everyone; it's meticulously crafted for those who desire a personalized and exclusive exploration.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Splendor of the Piscean Soul is an exceptional and refreshing take on exploring the mystical world of the Pisces zodiac sign. Authored with creativity and insight, this book offers a one-of-a-kind experience for astrology enthusiasts and curious minds alike. Through its innovative use of questions and answers, it successfully stands out from conventional astrology books, delivering a deeper understanding of Pisces and their enigmatic nature.
Written Exclusively for You- This book isn't meant for a wide audience; it's crafted with a special touch for those who value a unique and personal journey.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
The book "Aries for Life: The Volcano" is not just about the stars above, but the volcano within each of us - the burning desire that pushes us forward, the explosive passion that drives us, and the sometimes-tempestuous nature that makes us unique. We are the first of the zodiac, and we carry that spark of the universe deep in our souls.
Formulated with Your Essence Only- This book is not for everyone; it's tailored to individuals who seek a deeper connection and a more personalized experience.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
In "Cancer: Embracing the Moonlight," journey into the mystical world of Cancer, the fourth zodiac sign, and explore the profound emotional depth, nurturing qualities, and creative spirit that define this astrological archetype. This comprehensive and insightful book delves into the unique characteristics of Cancerians, offering a profound understanding of their nature, relationships, and life's journey, all while celebrating the beauty of embracing the moon's ethereal influence.
Individually written for You- This book doesn't cater to everyone; it's designed to cater exclusively to individuals who appreciate a personalized and exclusive insight.
The book "Capricorn: Path to Success and Achievement" is a journey designed especially for you, the Capricorns. Your unwavering dedication, practical mindset, and unyielding spirit are an inspiration to us all. In these pages, we celebrate your unique path to success and achievement, and we uncover the depths of your multifaceted personality.
Crafted with You in Mind- This book goes beyond the ordinary; it's meant for those who seek a distinct and personalized experience.
"Aquarius: Illuminate the Future" stands out as a truly unique and exceptional zodiac book that surpasses any other in its category. Its distinct qualities and compelling content make it a must-read for individuals seeking a deeper understanding of not only the Aquarius zodiac sign but also themselves and the world around them. Here's why "Aquarius: Illuminate the Future" is so special:
"Sagittarius: The Adventurous Spirit" is a one-of-a-kind zodiac book that stands out from the rest due to its unique approach in capturing the essence of the spirited Archer. Unlike other zodiac books, this masterpiece delves deep into the core of the Sagittarius personality, celebrating their adventurous spirit, unwavering optimism, and the extraordinary impact they have on the world. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking to understand the vibrant and free-spirited Sagittarius, as it offers an insightful and comprehensive exploration of their multifaceted personality.
According to Kabbalah, the secret of the letters in a person's name
Sami Bsoul
Before you get excited, there are things you need to know.
Some letters may not match with Hebrew letters if your name is not a Jewish name.
In many cases, you might want to find the exact
Hebrew Tattoo Ideas for the Soul: Hebrew Words and Phrases to Live By
Sami Bsoul
As a Hebrew lecturer, I'm frequently approached by people who want to have tattoos and are looking for suggestions for Hebrew words or phrases to incorporate in their design. While I feel that tattoos are a deeply individualized form of expression, I have seen that when it comes to design, people tend to lean towards specific categories. This article provides helpful insights and considerations that may be useful when choosing Hebrew words or phrases for your tattoo design.
From Language to Culture: Keys to Successful Communication with Israelis (Part 1)
By: Sami Bsoul
Hebrew and Slovak version of the article here.
Whether visiting or working in Israel, mastering effective communication is key to building relationships and establishing trust, and knowing the cultural norms will help you avoid misunderstandings and make a positive impression.
I would say, the number one and mother of all Do's and Don'ts is: Do not manipulate with Israelis.
- In my opinion, the most important rule when interacting with Israelis, is to avoid manipulating them. Israelis are generally forgiving and will overlook your mistakes and they will forgive your flaws. However, they will not forgive anyone who tries to take advantage of them or treat them as fools (פראייר). Therefore, it's crucial to be honest and transparent in your dealings with Israelis to gain their respect and trust.
Don't forget to keep this in mind, trying to manipulate an Israeli is like trying to out-haggle a seasoned market vendor - you may think you're getting a good deal, but in the end, you'll be the one feeling duped!
- If you Take Offence Easily you will not have much Israeli friends : Israelis can be blunt and direct, which can sometimes come across as rude or insensitive. Don't take offense easily and try to understand the intent behind the communication.
It's worth noting that, if an Israeli says your cooking is terrible, it means they love you enough to be honest with you. So, take it as a compliment and ask for their secret recipe instead!
- When conversing with Israelis, it's important to give them a chance to react and participate in the discussion. Israelis are known for their attentive listening skills and quick understanding, so you don't need to talk too much to get your point across. If you notice that they are waiting patiently for their turn to speak, make sure to give them the space and time to share their thoughts. Otherwise, you risk losing their interest in the conversation.
Here's something to keep in your back pocket, when talking to Israelis, it's like playing a game of verbal tennis - if you hog the ball too much, you'll end up getting served a cold shoulder!
- Although Israelis value respect, they don't appreciate excessive formality in any type of relationship, even in business. If they feel pressured to maintain a formal demeanor, they may try to do so, but it won't last for long. Ultimately, Israelis prefer genuine and authentic interactions, even in professional settings.
A little insider tip for you, Israelis respect a good sense of humour more than a fancy suit, so if you can make them laugh, you're already ahead in the game!
- You may have heard it, I may have heard it, and everyone around us definitely heard it. Unavoidable noise is a part of everyday life in Israel. It's not uncommon to hear people shouting across a packed room, bus, or train or speaking loudly on their phones, sometimes at full volume, in public places.
One thing you don't want to overlook is, when in Israel, the noise level is just as high as the energy level - so don't be afraid to turn up the volume and let your inner extrovert out to play!
- Don't be surprised to see hand gestures used often in Israeli communication. It's not a sign of weakness or an inability to articulate. In fact, it's a rich part of Israeli culture and is used to emphasize points, convey emotions, and enhance overall communication.
So, don't be alarmed if you find yourself in a conversation with an Israeli and they start waving their hands around like they're trying to flag down a taxi. It's just their way of expressing themselves, and who knows, maybe you'll even learn a new gesture or two!
- Straightforward communication approach: Israelis don't shy away from expressing their opinions and tend to be upfront about what they think. This is their way of showing investment in the conversation, the subject matter, or any project at hand, and to express their care for it, whether it's an object or a person. The Israeli communication style is highly straightforward and can also be perceived as frank and amicable.
Take note of this important detail, if you're looking for someone to sugarcoat their words, you might want to steer clear of Israelis. But if you're ready for some real talk, get ready to bond with these frank and friendly communicators!
- Unless you are familiar with the individual, it's best to steer clear of discussing controversial topics like politics, religion, and the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Even if you believe you possess expertise in these areas, it's important to exercise caution.
- It's crucial to recognize the political culture of the person you are speaking with and to whom you are addressing these issues. The Israeli society is complex and diverse, comprising numerous viewpoints and opinions. Therefore, it's necessary to be mindful of these complexities when engaging in conversations about sensitive topics.
Remember, when in doubt, you can always stick to discussing the weather - everyone loves to complain about that!
- A clear communication style is typical of Israelis. They openly discuss topics that may be considered off-limits or taboo in other cultures. Therefore, do not be surprised if an Israeli asks you about
Beyond Borders: The Power of Translating Your Book into Hebrew
By Sami Bsoul
Expanding a book's reach by translating it into a different language is a significant decision that requires careful consideration of both the potential benefits and costs. In this article, I will delve into the advantages and challenges of translating a book into Hebrew and help you determine if it's a worthwhile investment for you as an author.
החיבוק הנסתר של עליזה
סמי בסול
אתם מכירים את הזקנה הזאת שגרה בשכונה? זו שתמיד עושה משהו קצת מוזר, אבל אף פעם לא במובן הרע של המילה?
ובכן, הנה דוגמה עד כמה השכנה שלי עליזה בת השמונים, עם שערה הכסוף והדקיק, יכולה להיות ייחודית.
בימי החורף הקרירים, עם ניצוץ תמידי בעיניה, היא
When Hebrew Met Czech on a Train: Journey of Laughter and Language
Sami Bsoul
Once upon a time, long before numerous moons had graced the sky and countless laughter had etched lines upon my face, I, a humble Hebrew teacher, embarked on an adventure that would forever tickle my funny bone.
Picture this: I found myself nestled comfortably in a train compartment, mindfully minding my own business (and an intriguing book). Little did I know that fate had conspired to weave
Welcome to "Scorpio: Depth, Intensity and Beyond"
Years ago, as a Scorpio myself, possessing a Master of Science degree and aspiring author with a diverse collection of books, drawing upon my background in psychology and as an accomplished expert in the realm of zodiac traits and personalities, I wrote a book about the Scorpio zodiac sign. But now, I return with a deeper, more mature, and thoroughly evaluated perspective. 'Scorpio: Depth, Intensity and Beyond' is born from the desire to offer a richer and more objective understanding of this enigmatic astrological sign.
A sophisticated investigation at the heart of "221" methodically evaluates a remarkable 221 attributes across all zodiac signs. This big project provides a new perspective on the many ways in which these traits manifest in different people. The methodology is systematic yet inventive, bringing a fresh perspective on the astrological universe.
Sami Bsoul, PhD
Ever wondered why you're attracted to some people and things and not to others?
'Stars and Desires: Navigating Intimacy through the Zodiac Signs' is your cosmic guide to understanding the profound influence of astrology on your deepest desires.
"221" is a detailed book that methodically evaluates 221 traits across all zodiac signs at its heart. These characteristics, which are intimately built into the foundation of our astrological identities, are brought to life via thorough examination and comparison. The end result is a detailed and fascinating assessment of how these characteristics show in various persons.
This fantastic book is designed to help young readers understand and handle their emotions with confidence. "EmoGenius" is one of a kind, as it tackles a challenging topic like emotions and explains it throughout the book using simple language that resonates with teens.
"EmoGenius: A Teen's Guide to Emotions" is a roadmap to emotional intelligence. Along the way, you'll gain not only a deeper understanding of your emotions but also the confidence and resilience to face the challenges that life presents. It's your guide to becoming emotionally smart and strong.
Whispers of Self-Discovery
New Book By Sami Bsoul
Whispers of Self-Discovery is not intended for those who cling to their own certainties, nor for those who seek superficial embraces. It offers genuine and authentic words that will embrace you wholeheartedly, acknowledging that you are no longer a child, and I am not here to play the role of your mother.
"Leo: Born to Shine" is a literary gem that deserves a place in every library, offering profound insights into the unique world of Leos. This book exposes the essence of Leo individuals, providing readers with invaluable understanding of their remarkable qualities. It serves as a guiding light for anyone seeking to explore the depths of creativity, courage, and charisma that define Leos.
New book by Sami Bsoul
This coloring book is filled with exciting illustrations of adorable animals that will inspire your child's creativity and imagination.
Discover the Delightful World of Animals!
Protect what matters. Choose your battles wisely.
In the boundless expanse of the open skies, where eagles proudly hold dominion as nature's soaring monarchs, there comes a time when an unexpected guest, a crow, dares to ride upon their majestic backs.
Welcome to a world of emotions! In this blog, I bring to you 43 intriguing facts about those mysterious feelings that shape our lives. We'll break down the science behind emotions and share fun, easy-to-understand insights that even teens can enjoy.
The owner of a Japanese factory that had a soap production line faced a problem.
Occasionally, some cartons would come out empty, which caused a serious issue.
מי ייתן 
מאת סמי בסול
כשהעולם רועד לפניי
כשהחושך נופל עליי
מי מפורר את פחדיי
מי מאיר את פניי
אתה בקרבת מקום
מביא עליי שלום
לא לא זה לא חלום
בכל רגע, קטן כגדול
דואג לעולם שלא איפול
אתה עוצמה יודעת כל
In the exciting world of "EmoGenius: A Teen's Guide to Emotions," teens and kids are invited on a special journey to discover themselves and their feelings better. This fantastic book is designed to help young readers understand and handle their emotions with confidence. It's like a super helpful guide that not only talks about why feelings are important but also says it's totally okay to have all sorts of emotions.
The Complex Persona of Scorpio | The Multifaceted Traits of the Enigmatic Sign
Sami Bsoul
People born between October 23 and November 21 possess a rich tapestry of traits that set them apart from other signs.
The Significance of Sexual Satisfaction in Relationships
Sami Bsoul
Ensuring your partner's satisfaction goes beyond just the physical aspect. Read and discover the importance of sexual satisfaction, fostering emotional connections, and nurturing intimacy.
In the captivating world of "EmoGenius: A Teen's Guide to Emotions," children and teenagers are invited to embark on a remarkable journey of self-discovery and emotional well-being. This extraordinary book is designed to help young readers understand and manage their emotions with grace and confidence. It's an indispensable guide that not only explains the importance of emotions but also validates the diverse range of feelings they experience.
The Truth About Relationships: No Sugarcoating Allowed
By Sami Bsoul
Rather than prefacing my topic with what I won't be discussing or doing, I will jump straight into the main focus of my writing.
I am not going to gloss over the difficult or uncomfortable aspects of relationships, but rather, I am going to speak honestly and openly about what it takes to build a strong, loving partnership.
The Fallacy of Doing What You Don't Like for Future Happiness | Embrace Your Passion
Sami Bsoul
There is a widespread fallacy that advocates ‘’Do what you don't like now so one day in the future you can do what you like’’.
This, however, is a grave error.
Instead, focus on what you actually enjoy and find rewarding, since this is the key to a life of authenticity, joy, and personal development.
You will continue and improve gradually if you
Values Out of Control: Exploring the Crisis of Misaligned Priorities in Society
By Sami Bsoul
Many people today feel that there is a fundamental mismatch between the values that are prioritized in society and their own personal values. Despite technological advancements, economic progress, and social change, many people feel disconnected from their communities, uncertain about the future, and anxious about the present. At the root of this unease is a crisis of values, where the things that we prioritize and the decisions that we make are not always aligned with what is truly important and beneficial for ourselves and others.
Take Care, Stress Less: A Guide to Self-Care and Stress Management for Your Mind, Body, and Spirit
By Sami Bsoul
Stress is like weather, it can bring both positive and negative outcomes to our lives. Just like a beautiful sunny day can fill us with joy and positivity, some level of stress can motivate us and drive us to achieve our goals. When stress becomes excessive and
Interview Preparation Essential
Must-Read Tips to Help You Pass Your Next Job Interview
Part 1
By Sami Bsoul
Have you ever experienced an interview that changed your life forever?
One hour can be all it takes to determine your future success. The aim of this article is to help you prepare for those critical moments, by providing you with the tools and knowledge needed to overcome any challenges you may encounter during an interview.
While every interview is unique, this article focuses on the most important questions that you may face and how you can effectively respond to them. Even if your interviewer or future employer phrases their questions differently, the strategies presented in this article will help you measure your performance and present yourself in the best possible light.
Most books and web pages on this topic fail to capture the importance of small details, which can make a significant difference during an interview. This article takes a different approach, emphasizing the importance of these often-overlooked elements and
Small Details Matter
Why Paying Attention to the Little Things Can Make or Break Your Interview
Part 2
By Sami Bsoul
Remember, even the most experienced surgeon can still be surprised by a new operation. Likewise, your interviewer or future employer, who may have conducted hundreds of interviews, can still be impressed by your attitude and answers.
Be prepared and be an individual with the spirit of a team player.
During a job interview, you may answer all the questions well, but the devil is in the details.
Another topic I want to discuss in this article, before I start with the questions, is what I call it "small details." These details are important elements that can make an impact on each review.
All the details mentioned below should be considered to prevent being annoyed by small things.
Let me show you how to take advantage of every small detail and turn it into an opportunity to win the interview like a boss (Similar tips for online interview, here).
From the moment you arrive at the interview, starting from the reception of your future company to the very first handshake with your interviewer, and to the escort to the interview room, there are tons of
Gather Your Plus Points During The Interview
Part 3
By Sami Bsoul
It is possible that your interview will be conducted by more than one person. Don't panic. These are often the best interviews, and you should be pleased if more than one person is interviewing you. The fact that there are more people in the room doesn't necessarily mean more questions.
Typically, the entire interview is limited to one hour, so the number of questions will also be limited. However, this is even better because you will
Beyond the Surface:Tap Your Deep Energy's Infinite Potential
Bu Sami Bsoul
Dear reader,
You feel tired and exhausted, like you've been carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. Your energy levels are depleted, and you don't know how to get them back up. It's a familiar feeling, one that we all experience from time to time. But fear not, because there are ways to recharge your energy and get back to feeling like your best self.
Whenever you feel exhausted, sad, or in need of a hug, take a moment to read these words. Allow them to wash over you like a warm and comforting embrace, and know that the deep energy inside you is a source of limitless potential and strength.
Read these lines, and allow their message to penetrate your soul. Feel the
The interview formally started
Part 4
By Sami Bsoul
Attitude is everything; skills come in second place. What good is it if you're the best candidate but have a bad attitude? On the one hand, you don't want to leave any conversation unanswered. After all, it's all about interaction and communication. On the other hand, you don't want to be annoying. So, let your conversation flow naturally, and don't be too quiet.
Before we begin with the questions and answers, please don't do what many books or blogs advise you to do, which is; to
Mastering the "Tell Me About Yourself" Question in Job Interviews
Part 5
By Sami Bsoul
I know it is hard for me to predict who you, my mysterious reader, are, but it is not hard for me to tell you that if this is the first question you are asked, then the ball is now in your court. This is a typical question that is frequently repeated in interviews. Your answer will depend on various factors, but you are the one who knows yourself best.
Start with your latest/current role. You do not need to mention what you did last summer during your vacation since your interviewer
Why do you want to work for us?
Why should we hire you?
Why you are the best candidate for us?
Part 6
By Sami Bsoul
Let me start with the question, why do you want to work for us? This is your chance to recap how the company will benefit from hiring you. You do not want to disclose emotions that you need this job desperately, but rather you want to show your interviewer that you are passionate about the role. The message you want to convey when answering this question is:
Your awareness of the job requirements.
Your level of skills required for the job.
The knowledge and experience you have gained related to this job.
You can also demonstrate that you have learned about the company, and mention what this company is good at.
For example:
Instead of saying: "...I feel I can contribute to the company by...", better say: "...I believe
You cannot build a destiny but you can change it
Be Successful, happy and confident
By Sami Bsoul
Captain Nathan Algren was captured by the Samurai leader Katsumoto, who wanted to study his enemy and understand him better. Katsumoto, who spoke English very well, developed a close friendship with Algren.
The Last Samurai was the first intelligent action film I watched, and it captured my attention with the Samurai's ability to apply their accumulated knowledge sensibly and prudently.
Prompted by wisdom, Katsumoto asked Nathan Algren, "Do you believe a man can change his destiny?" Algren, who had experienced humankind's existence without any illusions, provided an enlightening response with one sentence, "I think a man does what he can until his destiny is revealed."
This simple answer was capable of summarizing the ultimate goals, aims, and existence of all human beings on Earth.We work hard to achieve something meaningful in life, and often we question whether everything that happens around us is managed by some higher power. To a great extent, we are uncertain whether our personal experiences are
Whether you study in person or online, learning Hebrew can be a rewarding and fascinating experience that opens up new doors of opportunity and knowledge.
Finding a skilled Hebrew teacher will assist you in achieving your language learning goals more quickly and successfully. I can help you
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Create a customized learning plan
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Provide you with the tools
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Support you to succeed by getting to know your specific needs and learning preferences.
To change your destiny
Open your eyes
By Sami Bsoul
All depends on how much you are willing to search for the truth, and how much you are willing to change in certain ways without permanently losing your former characteristics or essence.
It depends on whether you approach reality with an attentive mindset towards conformity, or if you refuse to accept anything that is not already known to you. It also depends on whether you stick to your conventional and formulaic conceptions, or if you are willing to recognize and acknowledge new mental images.
There is a well-known story of a man who had been blind all his life, and one day gained sight. Overjoyed, he hurried outside to let people know about his newfound ability, but his first and only glimpse was of a brown chicken on his front doorstep.As the first object he
Over-power your problems
By Sami Bsoul
Everything in this world starts small and grows bigger. Only problems start big and get smaller if we overpower them.
Every problem has a definite age. Unless we give problems more life than they deserve, they will not last forever.
You may have heard the story of a wise man who offered to help people who claimed to be living in tragedy.
He said, "I can treat and resolve any sorrows and problems you have. Whoever comes to me will find me available."
People from all over the world were attracted to this proclamation, each with their own problems and expectations that the wise man would solve them and fulfill their desires.The wise man prepared a
Fortunate people are happy with their character
By Sami Bsoul
Your character is an integral part of who you are and will stay with you throughout your life. It is a complex set of inherent attributes that determines your moral and ethical actions and reactions. The best intention is not to despair over your qualities or uproot the nature of your personality but to learn to navigate and cultivate it.
Your character is like a garden, with weeds and flowers all mixed up. You could spend your life pulling out every weed, but why not focus on growing the flowers instead? With some care and attention, you might even end up with a beautiful bouquet of qualities that define who you are.
Just like a garden, your character needs nurturing and attention to grow into its full potential. If you only focus on pulling out the weeds, your garden may end up looking barren and lifeless. But if you take the time to water and care for your flowers, they will bloom and attract all kinds of beautiful things, like butterflies and bees.
Similarly, if you focus on cultivating your positive qualities, they will grow and attract positive experiences and people into your life. Your kindness and generosity may lead to new friendships and opportunities, while your perseverance and determination may help you overcome challenges and achieve your goals.
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מאת סאמי בסול
איש אבוד (סיאל), בעיר מלאת צללים ואי ודאות, נתקל בשתי ישויות. אחת טובה (דיה) ואחת רעה. הן מאתגרות אותו, להתעמת עם הפחדים והרצונות העמוקים ביותר שלו. בלב מלא אומץ ונחישות לעשות את מה שנכון, דיה לוקחת את סיאל תחת חסותה. אבל הוא לא יודע, שהוא עומד לצאת למסע שישנה את חייו לנצח. בעיר הזו, הוא יגלה את המשמעות האמיתית של גבורה, הקרבה וגאולה. המסע לא יהיה קל. כאשר כולם מנווטים במבוך של סכנה ופיתוי, הם יתקלו בכוח מרושע שנחוש להוביל אותם שולל. דיה תצטרך לזמן את כל כוחה וחוכמתה, כדי להגן על סיאל מפגיעה ולהוביל אותו אל האור. האם היא תוליך אותו בדרכם של צדיקים, או הוא ייכנע לפיתויי החושך? עם כל פיתול וסיבוב, הסיפור המרגש הזה, ישאיר אתכם על קצה המושב שלכם.
החיים מצחיקים אז צוחקים
סמי בסול
מוזרים הם החיים האלה, הם תהליך לעולם בלתי נגמר של התפתחות ושינוי.
הסערה של אתמול, המאבקים, הכישלונות, הסבל, הצלקות, האתגרים, הדמעות, התהפוכות, המאמץ, המחלה והקשרים עם אנשים רעים השפיעו כולם על מי שאתם היום.
הם חיזקו את הביטחון העצמי שלך, חידדו את כושר השיפוט שלך, העניקו לך גמישות וכוח, הראו את עומק החוסן הפנימי שלך, ולימדו אותך כיצד להתמודד עם השפעות שליליות.
מאת סמי בסול
חלק א
הספר הגנוז, הוא סיפור שייקח אתכם לעולם מעבר לדמיון שלכם. גיבורת הסיפור היא ילדה קטנה שמתבוננת ומתעדת את העולם סביבה בעין תמימה וסקרנית. היצירה הזו מלאה בהומור ורגעים משמחים. יש בה גם רגעים עצובים ויגרמו לכם להזיל דמעה או שתיים. יש בה פרטים מרתקים ותיאור מדהים של - איך ייראה העולם בשנת מיליון ואחת!
ברובו, הספר הגנוז, כתוב בצורת יומן של ילדה בת שתים עשרה, ככל שהיא גדלה, סגנון הכתיבה שלה משתנה, נעשה מתוחכם, בוגר יותר, ומשקף את נקודת המבט המתפתחת שלה על החיים והעולם.
מערכות היחסים של הגיבורה עם משפחתה, חבריה ואנשים אחרים מחממות את הלב. הסיפור, נוגע בנושאים שונים שהופכים את חווית הקריאה, למרגשת מאוד ומעוררת מחשבה.
זהו סיפור שיגרום לכם לחייך, ואולי גם לבכות. הוא בהחלט, יגרום לכם לחשוב לעומק על העולם בו אנו חיים ועל העתיד המצפה לנו.
אם חשבתם שספר כזה לא קיים, אז כדאי לכם לחשוב עוד פעם, כי יש דברים שהם מעבר להבנתנו ולשליטתנו.
רונפיל בירושלים
מאת סאמי בסול
פרק א
הַגִּבּוֹר שֶׁל הַסִּפּוּר, הוּא פִּיל
כֵּן כֵּן, וְקָרְאוּ לוֹ רוֹנְפִּיל
לֹא הָיָה גָּדוֹל, לֹא הָיָה קָטָן
דֵּי בֵּינוֹנִי, אֲבָל כָּל כָּךְ סַקְרָן
הָיְתָה לוֹ אַמְבִּיצְיָה גְּדוֹלָה
לִרְאוֹת אֶת אַרְצֵנוּ הַקְּדוֹשָׁה
אָז הֶחֱלִיט לִנְסֹעַ לִירוּשָׁלַיִם
הִתְיַשֵּׁב בַּמָּטוֹס, וְנוֹפֵף אָזְנַיִם
בָּהּ הוּא רָאָה הִיסְטוֹרְיָה
עֲבוּרוֹ זֹאת הָיְתָה סֻכָּרִיָּה
בְּסִמְטָאוֹת הָעִיר, מִמֶּנּוּ הִתְפַּעֲלוּ
וּלְמַרְאֵה עֵינֵיהֶם לֹא הֶאֱמִינוּ
הוּא הִתְפַּעֵל מֵהַיֹּפִי וְהַפְּאֵר
הוּא שָׂמַח שֶׁעָשָׂה אֶת הַמַּסָּע וְדִבֵּר
זֶה הָיָה טִיּוּל חַיָּיו
לַמְרוֹת שֶׁזֶּה הָיָה טִיּוּל קָצָר
בְּסוֹפוֹ הוּא אָמַר
הוֹ, יְרוּשָׁלַיִם
אֲנִי אֶזְכֹּר אוֹתָךְ תָּמִיד
כָּל עוֹד אֲנִי חַי
כַּמָּה שֶׁאֲנִי אוֹהֵב אוֹתָךְ
מֵהַחוֹמוֹת הָעַתִּיקוֹת שֶׁלָּךְ
עַד לְפָלָאפֶל הַכֹּל כָּךְ טָעִים
לְעוֹלָם לֹא אֶשְׁכַּח אֶת הַטִּיּוּל הַנָּעִים
רוני היה פיל בינוני. לא כל כך גדול, יחסית לקרוביו הענקיים והמלכותיים.
היה מי שקרא לו בשם רון, והיה מי שקרא לו בשם רוני. אימו, כולל חבריו קראו לו רונפיל. הוא אהב את השם רונפיל יותר משאר השמות.
צבעו היה אפור בהיר, בדיוק כמו צבעם של רוב הפילים האחרים.
האוזניים הוורודות של רונפיל, היו כל כך גדולות, ונראו כאילו הן שייכות לפיל גדול בהרבה.
החדק שלו היה קצר ושמנמן, יותר מזה של הפילים האחרים.
רגליו היו קטנות, לכן הוא צעד צעדים מהירים בכל פעם שהוא ניסה לעמוד בקצב הצעדים הארוכים של הפילים האחרים. הוא היה חייב לרוץ תמיד, ולפעמים גם לקפוץ, כדי לעמוד בקצב המהירות של חבריו. מה שגרם לו ליפול מדי פעם.
רונפיל לא נתן, להליכה המטופשת שלו להפריע לו בבילויים, או במשחקים.
הוא שיחק מחבואים עם הקופים, הסתובב בשלוליות בוץ, ורדף אחרי פרפרים עם החדק הקטן והחמוד שלו. רוחו השובבה, והופעתו המקסימה של רונפיל, כבשו את ליבם של כל החיות בג'ונגל, שלעתים קרובות היו צוחקים ומריעים לו, בזמן שהוא ניסה ללכת אחרי קרוביו הגדולים יותר.
וכך רונפיל, אולי היה קצת שונה מהשאר, אך הוא תמיד היה אהוב, ומקובל בגלל מי שהוא היה.
הרי לא גודל הפיל חשוב, אלא גודל ליבו.
ולרונפיל היה לב טוב ורחב.
הוא חי באמצע הג'ונגל, במערב יבשת אפריקה. הוא היה סקרן והרפתקן כאחד.
רונפיל תמיד הוקסם, מהסיפורים ששמע מבעלי חיים אחרים, על מקומות רחוקים, וארצות אקזוטיות מעבר לג'ונגל.
הוא חלם לראות את העולם, ולחוות הרפתקאות חדשות.
בינינו, לרונפיל נמאס מאותה שגרת ג'ונגל ישנה, ורצה לראות את העולם מעבר לעצים.
כמו כל יום, רונפיל שיחק לו בג'ונגל, כשלפתע נתקל בקבוצת ינשופים שפטפטו בהתרגשות, על הטיול האחרון שלהם בירושלים. רונפיל היה מהופנט מהסיפורים שלהם על ירושלים. הוא ישב, ושמע מהם שירושלים היא עיר ממוקמת במזרח התיכון, זוהי בירת ישראל, וגם הבין שהיא אחת הערים העתיקות בעולם, עם היסטוריה של למעלה מ-4000 שנה.
רונפיל התרגש מאוד כששמע שבעיר ירושלים יש גם מוזיאונים רבים, ביניהם מוזיאון ישראל, המכיל אוסף עצום של חפצים ויצירות אומנות. הינשופים סיפרו שבירושלים יש גם חיי לילה תוססים, יש בה הרבה מסעדות, ברים ומועדונים, וירושלים היא ביתם של מספר אוניברסיטאות, ומוסדות מחקר. הוא גם למד שלרשות המחוקקת ובית הנבחרים של מדינת ישראל, קוראים "הכנסת", וגם היא נמצאת בירושלים.
רונפיל הבין מהינשופים שהאקלים בירושלים הוא ים תיכוני, עם קיץ חם ויבש וחורף קריר וגשום.
רונפיל ישב בשקט מתחת לעץ, והמשיך להקשיב לינשופים. הינשופים סיפרו שבירושלים מתגוררים הרבה מאוד אנשים, עם תמהיל מגוון של תרבויות ודתות. העיר ידועה בחשיבותה הדתית ליהודים, לנוצרים ולמוסלמים, ויש בה אתרים קדושים רבים לכל אחת מהדתות הללו. הוא היה נדהם לגלות שהעיר העתיקה בירושלים, מוקפת חומות, והיא ביתם של רבים מהאתרים הדתיים החשובים, ביניהם הכותל המערבי, כנסיית הקבר וכיפת הסלע.
הינשופים שמו לב שרונפיל מקשיב להם, אז הם שאלו אותו אם הוא ביקר בירושלים כבר.
רונפיל ענה להם "עוד לא, אבל אני מתכנן לבקר שם בקרוב".
בלילה, רונפיל לא יכל לישון. הוא חשב כל הזמן, איך הוא יכול לנסוע לירושלים.
הוא לא הפסיק לחזור על הדברים ששמע מהינשופים.
בבוקר, הוא סיפר לאימא שלו שהוא מאוד רוצה לנסוע לירושלים.
אימו חייכה ואמרה "מה אתה יודע על ירושלים שאתה רוצה כל כך לבקר בה?"
אז רונפיל ענה לה בלי היסוס "אימא, ירושלים היא פסיפס של היסטוריה, של תרבויות ודתות מגוונות. זוהי עיר בעלת רבדים של משמעות. היא כמו תצורה גיאולוגית שחושפת את סודות העבר של כדור הארץ. זהו מקום עתיק וגם מודרני, ויש בה חיים תוססים. זהו מקום עלייה לרגל, אליו מגיעים אנשים מכל קצוות העולם כדי לחפש הארה והתעלות. ירושלים היא מגדלור של תקווה, עיר שספגה מאות שנים של סכסוכים, ועדיין טומנת בחובה הבטחה לשלום. זהו מקום שבו הרוח האנושית מנצחת את כל הרוע. אני רוצה לבקר בירושלים, יש בה כוח של אהבה ופיוס שיכול להתגבר על שנאה ופילוג. בקיצור, ירושלים היא אוצר של חוויה אנושית, מיקרוקוסמוס של המורשת התרבותית והרוחנית של העולם, וסמל לחיפוש האנושי המתמשך אחר משמעות ותכלית. שום דבר לא ימנע ממני לבקר בה."
אימא של רונפיל הקשיבה בדריכות כאשר הוא סיפר לה על ירושלים, והיא אהבה איך הוא תיאר את הדברים המדהימים ששמע על העיר הזו.
"אבל איך תגיע לשם רונפיל שלי?" היא שאלה אותו, והמשיכה "אני לא יודעת מה להגיד, אם הג'ונגל שלנו רחוק מאוד מירושלים, או ירושלים רחוקה מאוד מאיתנו. אבל, אתה תצטרך לטוס במטוס לשם, או אחרת תצטרך להפליג באונייה עד לחוף, ומשם לעלות לירושלים."
רונפיל הקטן עוד לא ראה בחייו לא מטוס ולא אונייה.
הוא נזכר שהינשופים דיברו על החוויות המרהיבות והאוכל הטעים שהם טעמו בירושלים, אז הוא ענה לאימא שלו "אין לי מושג איך אני יכול להגיע לשם, אבל אני חייב לראות את העיר בעצמי."
אחרי השיחה עם אמא שלו, רונפיל יצא לשחק ביער. אימו קיוותה שתוך כמה זמן הוא ישכח מכל הסיפור. אבל הוא קיווה למצוא עוד מידע איך לנווט ברחובות של ירושלים כשיגיע לשם.
תוך שהוא מסתובב ביער, הוא שמע צליל זמזום חזק מרחוק. הוא הרים את מבטו, וראה מטוס לבן ממריא בשמים. רונפיל מעולם לא ראה דבר כזה לפני כן, והוא היה מהופנט מהאופן שבו המטוס טס באוויר ללא מאמץ. רונפיל ידע אז שמטוס הוא התשובה לסוגיית הנסיעה שלו. הוא החליט ללמוד, ולהבין איך נוסעים במטוס כזה. הוא שאל ברחבי הג'ונגל, ובסופו של דבר מצא ינשוף זקן וחכם שידע הכל על מטוסים. הינשוף אמר לו שהוא צריך לרכוש כרטיס טיסה, וללכת לשדה התעופה כדי לעלות למטוס. רונפיל היה נרגש, אך עצבני. הוא מעולם לא היה בשדה תעופה לפני כן, והוא לא היה בטוח איך הוא יישב במטוס. עם זאת, רונפיל היה נחוש.
הוא למד על ירושלים עוד הרבה דברים מכל הציפורים שנדדו אי פעם בירושלים.
אחרי חודש של הכנות, יום הטיסה התקרב.
רונפיל ידע שהוא צריך להכין את עצמו למסע הארוך שלפניו. הוא ידע שהוא צריך לאכול טוב, כדי להישאר בריא לאורך כל הטיסה. אז, הוא התחיל את יום ההכנה המפורט שלו לפני הטיסה, מוקדם בבוקר. הוא התעורר והלך ישר לנהר לעשות אמבטיה מרעננת. הוא רצה להיראות, ולהרגיש במיטבו לקראת היום הגדול שלו. לאחר הרחצה, הוא הלך לעץ סמוך, קטף כמה עלים ופירות טריים לארוחת הבוקר שלו, וחזר הביתה.
את ארוחת הבוקר הוא אכל יחד עם אימא שלו, רונפיל נהנה משתיית מנגו עסיסי, ואכל בננות, לצד כמה עלים ירוקים טריים. הוא ידע שזו הארוחה המושלמת שתעניק לו את האנרגיה הדרושה לו ליום שלפניו.
לאחר ארוחת הבוקר, רונפיל בילה את השעות הבאות בטיול בג'ונגל ונפרד מחבריו. הוא דאג לתת לכולם חיבוק גדול, ולומר להם כמה הוא יתגעגע אליהם. הוא אפילו עצר ליד בור המים האהוב עליו לשתות משהו ולשחייה מהירה. בשעות הערב, רונפיל חזר הביתה והתכונן לטיסתו. הוא הקפיד לארוז את כל החטיפים האהובים עליו, כולל בוטנים, תפוחים וגזר.
למחרת, הגיע יום הטיסה. רונפיל חיבק את אימו, והבטיח שישלח לה גלויות ותמונות מירושלים. הוא עשה את דרכו לנמל התעופה. הוא הופתע מהמוני האנשים, ומרעש המטוסים הממריאים והנוחתים. הוא מצא את דרכו לדלפק של אחת מחברות התעופה, והופתע לגלות שלחברת התעופה יש מדיניות מיוחדת לבעלי חיים גדולים כמוהו. הוא יצטרך לרכוש מושב נוסף, ואז הוא יוכל לטוס בדיוק כמו כולם. רונפיל רכש עוד מושב. בדיוטי פרי (בחנות פטורה ממס) הוא קנה עוד שקית של בוטנים למקרה חירום. הוא היה קצת עצבני כשעלה למטוס, כי זו עומדת להיות הטיסה הראשונה שלו אי פעם.
הנוסעים הביטו בו והיו מופתעים. הם מעולם לא ראו פיל מתיישב במטוס לפני כן, והם תהו איך הוא בכלל יתאים את עצמו במושב שלו. אבל רונפיל היה נחוש להפיק את המרב מההרפתקה שלו, והתעלם מהמבטים של הנוסעים. הוא התיישב והתחיל מיד לנשנש את הפינוקים האהובים עליו. הטיסה הולכת להיות ארוכה, אבל רונפיל היה מוכן היטב.
הוא התרגש כשהרגיש שהמטוס המריא. במהלך הטיסה, רונפיל לא האמין עד כמה העולם נראה שונה מלמעלה באוויר.
הוא לעס את הבוטנים שלו תוך שהוא היה מרוכז בנוף שמחוץ לחלון.
לפתע, המטוס פגע במערבולת, והבוטנים של רונפיל עפו לכל עבר. הוא היה נבוך, אבל הוא לא נתן לזה להשפיע על חווית הטיסה הראשונה שלו.
מהחלון של המטוס, הוא ראה ערים רחבות ידיים, אוקיינוסים עצומים והרים נישאים. הוא התיידד עם הנוסעים האחרים, ואפילו נהנה מהאוכל שהגישו במטוס. הרבה נוסעים נתנו לו עוד בוטנים.
לבסוף, ואחרי טיסה ארוכה, רונפיל הגיע לנמל התעופה בן גוריון (נתב"ג) בישראל. משם הוא הוא עלה על הרכבת לירושלים.
ביורשלים, הוא ראה את כל מה שהוא חלם לראות. הוא הרגיש שזאת הולכת להיות הרפתקת חייו.
הוא הסתובב פה ושם ברחובות של ירושלים, ואפילו נתקע בסמטה צרה, עד שחולץ על ידי תלמידים שהרגע יצאו מבית ספרם.
רונפיל הבין שהוא קצת גדול מדי עבור מדרכות העיר. היא הפיל בטעות כמה שלטי רחוב ותיבות דואר. מדי פעם, הוא גרם לאנשים לקפוץ מדרכה. אבל רונפיל לא נתן לזה להרתיע אותו.
הוא המשיך במסעו, והתיידד עם קבוצת יונים בדרך. היונים התיישרו על גבו והדריכו אותו במבוך הבניינים והתנועה בירושלים. בסופו של דבר, רונפיל נתקל בשוק. הוא לא יכל לעמוד בפני הריחות של הפירות והירקות הטריים שעשו לו נוסטלגיה, אז הוא החליט לעיין בדוכנים, ולטעום כל מיני מאכלים טעימים. היונים סיפרו לו שזה נקרא שוק מחנה יהודה. רונפיל ניסה להיזכר, אבל הוא היה בטוח שהינשופים בג'ונגל, לא סיפרו לו על השוק הזה, "אולי פשוט הם לא ביקרו בו" חשב בינו לבין עצמו.
המוכרים הופתעו לראות פיל בשוק, אבל הם קיבלו אותו בזרועות פתוחות, ונתנו לו הרבה חטיפים ועוד בוטנים. כאשר רונפיל לעס איזה אבטיח טעים, הוא הבחין בקבוצת אמני רחוב בקרבת מקום שעשו אקרובטיקה, רונפיל הסתקרן ועמד שם עד שהם סיימו. אחר כך הוא המשיך בדרכו. הוא עצר ליד פארק, ושיחק עם כמה ילדים כדורגל, הוא היה שוער מצוין, כי הוא השתמש בכל גופו להדוף את כל הכדורים. כולם נהנו, וקבוצתו גם ניצחה.
לאורך הדרך הוא ראה הרבה דברים חדשים ופגש הרבה אנשים מעניינים.
הוא ביקר במוזיאונים, בגלריות לאומנות ובנקודות ציון מפורסמות.
רונפיל חשב על אימו לעתים קרובות, בעודו מסתובב בירושלים, ורצה לעדכן אותה איך הוא מסתדר. אז הוא החליט לשלוח לה גלויות ותמונות מהטיול שלו, בדיוק כפי שהבטיח לה.
רונפיל ביקר בסניף דואר וקנה חבילת גלויות. הוא החליט לשלוח לה כל יום גלויה אחת.
הוא רצה כל כך לספר לה מה הוא ראה ומה הוא חווה.
ביום הראשון הוא כתב לה "לאימא היקרה לי מכל, היום ביקרתי בשוק מחנה יהודה, ראיתי הרבה ביניינים יפים, רחובות הומים, והאנשים שפגשתי ידידותיים מאוד. עשיתי טיול בעמק הצבאים וביקרתי במתחם הירוק והיפהפה שם. למדתי שגם פה בירושלים, נאבקים על שימור הטבע הירושלמי. אחר כך, טיילתי בעמק המצלבה, בין הגבעות ועצי הזית. שם ביקרתי בכנסייה יוונית עתיקה. אין לך מושג אמא, כמה הנוף הוא פסטורלי בעמק המצלבה. אני אוהב אותך אימא. הבן שלך רונפיל"
רונפיל אפילו צייר תמונות קטנות של כמה מהדברים שראה והכניס אותם לתוך המעטפה.
לאחר כתיבת הגלויות צילם רונפיל את עצמו בכל אחד מהמקומות שבהם ביקר. הוא דאג לתפוס את הנוף היפה והמראות המעניינים בכל תמונה.
לאחר מכן, רונפיל חזר לסניף הדואר ושלח את הגלויות והתמונות לאימו. הוא היה נרגש לחלוק איתה את הרפתקאותיו ולא יכול לחכות שתקבל אותן. כך הוא עשה כל יום.עם השקיעה, רונפיל הבין שהגיע הזמן לחזור לבית המלון. הוא נפרד מחבריו החדשים והמשיך לעשות את הלילה בגן החיות. דרך אגב, הוא הזמין מראש מיטה בגן החיות התנ"כי, בדיוק לאורך תקופת שהייתו בירושלים שזה תשע לילות. הוא כל התרגש לגלות שהרבה חיות בגן החיות התנכ”י, הגיעו דווקא מאפריקה, ושמח מאוד להתיידד עם הפילים. הוא למד מהפילים בגן התנכ”י שהשמות שלהם ניתנו להם על שמותיהם של
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מדוע לא צריך להיות אכפת לכם ממה שאנשים חושבים עליכם?
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מה יקרה כאשר נפסיק לדאוג לגבי מה אחרים חושבים עלינו?
מה זה אומר להיות נאמנים לעצמנו?
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מה זה אומר למשוך את האנשים הנכונים אל חיינו?
מה זה אומר שיהיה לנו יותר זמן ואנרגיה לדברים החשובים באמת?
אתם ספינה מנווטת בים החיים העצום. דעותיהם של אחרים, הן כמו הרוחות והזרמים המשתנים ללא הרף שמקיפים אתכם.
כמו שספינה לא יכולה לשלוט במזג האוויר, אתם לא יכולים לשלוט בכל מה שאנשים אומרים עליכם, או לשלוט בכל מה שאחרים חושבים עליכם.
אבל, כמו שקברניט מיומן יודע לנווט בסופות ובמים סוערים, גם אתם יכולים ללמוד לנווט דרך דעותיהם של אחרים.
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כשם שקברניט ספינה חייב להתמקד במסע שלפניו, וביעדו בכלל, גם אתם צריכים להתמקד במטרותיכם ובשאיפותיכם.
אל תיתנו לדעותיהם של אחרים להסיח את דעתכם מדרככם.
זכרו, המדד האמיתי להצלחה אינו מה שאחרים אומרים עליכם, אלא איך אתם מרגישים לגבי עצמכם, והמסע בו אתם פוסעים.
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כאשר תפסיקו לדאוג לגבי מה אחרים חושבים עליכם, אתם תהיו חופשיים. לא תרגישו צורך לשחק משחק שהוא לא שלכם, או לפעול בדרך מסוימת, כדי להרשים אחרים. תנו לאישיות האמיתית שלכם לזרוח, ותאפשרו לעצמכם לחיות בצורה אותנטית.
אז מה זה אומר באמת?
להיות נאמנים לעצמנו, הוא היבט מכריע בניהול חיים מספקים. כאשר אתם חופשיים להיות מי שאתם באמת, אתם יכולים לבטא את המחשבות, והרגשות שלכם ללא פחד משיפוטיות. להיות אותנטיים, פירושו לחיות את החיים בתנאים שלכם, לרדוף אחרי המטרות שלכם, ולמצוא שמחה בדברים החשובים לכם באמת.
להיות חופשיים,
זה לרדוף אחרי התשוקות האמיתיות שלכם. כשאתם חופשיים להיות עצמכם, אתם יכולים לרדוף אחרי התשוקות שלכם, מבלי לדאוג מה אחרים חושבים. בין אם אתם מציירים, כותבים, עושים מוזיקה.. לעשות את מה שאתם אוהבים, יביא לכם שמחה ותחושת סיפוק. אתם יכולים לבטא את עצמכם, באמצעות האומנות שלכם, וליצור משהו שהוא ייחודי שלכם.
להיות חופשיים,
זה לקבל את החסרונות שלכם. אף אחד אינו מושלם, וקבלת החסרונות שלכם, היא חלק מהותי מהיותכם נאמנים לעצמכם. כאשר אתם מחבקים את חוסר השלמות שלכם, אתם יכולים להרפות מהלחץ להיות מושלמים, ואז תוכלו להתמקד בנקודות החוזק שלכם. זיהוי החסרונות והחולשות שלכם, רק יכול לעזור לכם לצמוח ולהשתפר.
להיות חופשיים,
זה להיות כנים עם עצמכם ועם אחרים. כשאתם אותנטיים, אתם לא תתיימרו להיות מישהו שאתם לא, ואתם לא תסתירו את הרגשות האמיתיים שלכם. אתם תוכלו לבטא את המחשבות והרגשות שלכם בפתיחות, מה שיעוזר לכם לבנות מערכות יחסים אמיתיות עם אחרים.
להיות חופשיים,
זה לקבל החלטות משלכם, מבלי להרגיש לחץ על ידי אחרים. אתם יכולים ללכת בדרך שלכם, ולעשות בחירות שמתאימות לערכים ולמטרות שלכם. זה יעצים אתכם לקחת שליטה על חייכם, וליצור את הייעוד שלכם.
להיות חופשיים,
זה לאמץ את הייחודיות שלכם. כי כולם ייחודיים, ואימוץ האינדיבידואליות שלכם, הוא היבט חיוני של החופש להיות אתם עצמכם. כשאתם מאמצים את התכונות האישיות שלכם, וגם את אלה המוזרות ביניהן, אתם תוכלו לחגוג את מה שעושה אתכם שונים, ולהתבלט בין הקהל.
אתם ציפורים
הכנפיים שלכם מוכנות לעוף
ללא כל מגבלה
אתם יכולים להגיע לגבהים ולאופקים חדשים
הנוצות שלכם תוססות וצבעוניות
מבטאות את האישיות והאינדיבידואליות הייחודית שלכם
אתם לא צריכים להתאים לציפיות או לסטנדרטים של אף אחד אחר
אתם יכולים לאמץ את האני האמיתי שלכם
ולתת לאור הפנימי שלכם לזרוח בבהירות
העולם הוא מגרש המשחקים שלכם
ואתם יכולים לרקוד לפי קצב השיר שלכם
חופשיים להיות אתם עצמכם, ללא כל פחד או היסוס
ברגע שאתם תפסיקו לחשוב, מה כל אחד חושב עליכם,
אתם תרגישו יותר בטוחים
כאשר תפסיקו לדאוג לגבי מה אחרים חושבים עליכם, אתם תרגישו בטוחים יותר בעצמכם. אתם לא תחפשו כל הזמן אישור מאחרים, ובמקום זאת תמצאו ביטחון בתוככם. ביטחון עצמי חדש זה, יעזור לכם להתמודד עם אתגרים ולרדוף אחרי החלומות שלכם ללא פחד משיפוטיות.
אז מה זה אומר באמת?
להיות יותר בטוחים,
זה להתמקד בנקודות החוזק שלכם. זה לזהות את הכישרונות, הכישורים ותחומי ההתמחות שלכם, ולהתרכז בהם. לדוגמה, אם אתם טובים בדיבור בפני קהל, התנדבו לנאום באירועים, הצטרפו לקבוצה שמעבירה הרצאות בפני קהל, או קבלו על עצמכם תפקידים הדורשים לתקשר עם אחרים.
דמיינו את עצמכם כעץ ביער עצום.
אולי התחלתם בקטנה, אבל עם הזמן התחזקתם, והגעתם לשמיים.
שלחתם שורשים עמוק לתוך האדמה, אשר מעגנים אתכם בחוזקה במקום.
בדיוק כמו שלכל עץ יש את החוזקות הייחודיות שלו, גם לכם יש סט מיומנויות ויכולות משלכם.
כמה עצים עשויים לשגשג בצל, בעוד שאחרים לא יכולים בלי אור השמש.
באופן דומה, אתם עשויים להצטיין בתחומים מסויימים כגון יצירתיות, פתרון בעיות או תקשורת.
כשאתם עומדים גבוה ביער, אתם תבחינו שכמה עצים מסביבכם מנסים לחקות אחרים, ולשלוח ענפים אל האור, בצורה שאינה טבעית עבורם. אבל, בדיוק כמו שלכל עץ יש את הנתיב שלו, גם אתם חייבים למצוא את מה שבא לכם באופן טבעי ולטפח אותו.
כאשר אתם מתמקדים בנקודות החוזק שלכם, תגלו שהענפים שלכם מגיעים רחוק יותר, העלים שלכם ירוקים יותר, והפירות שלכם שופעים יותר. ובדיוק, כמו שהיער צריך מגוון של עצים כדי לשגשג, העולם צריך את הכישרונות הייחודיים שלכם כדי לפרוח.
אז, הקדישו קצת זמן להרהר בדברים שגורמים לכם לזרוח, ואמצו אותם במלואם. בדיוק כמו העץ ביער, תעמדו זקופים, היו גאים במי שאתם, ותנו לכוחות הטבעיים שלכם להנחות אתכם להצלחה.
להיות יותר בטוחים,
זה לתרגל טיפול עצמי. זה חלק חיוני בהרגשת ביטחון עצמי. ודאו שאתם ישנים מספיק, אוכלים טוב ומתאמנים באופן קבוע. בנוסף, עסקו בפעילויות שגורמות לכם להרגיש טוב, כגון קריאה, האזנה למוזיקה, או בילוי עם אנשים אהובים.
זה כמו לרכוב על גל, פרץ האדרנלין כשאתם חוצבים את דרככם במים. אתם מרגישים עוצמתיים ובעלי שליטה, מסוגלים לנווט דרך כל אתגר שצץ מולכם.
להיות יותר בטוחים,
זה ללמוד מהטעויות שלכם. כולנו עושים טעויות, אבל חיוני ללמוד מהן במקום להתעכב עליהן. במקום הלקאה עצמית על כל טעות, שאלו את עצמכם, מה אתם יכולים ללמוד מהטעות, ואיך אתם יכולים להשתפר. לדוגמה, הגשתם מועמדות למשרה מסויימת, ולא קיבלתם אותה, חשבו על המשוב שקיבלתם, והשתמשו בו כדי לשפר את הכישורים שלכם להזדמנויות העתידיות שבטוח יבואו בשפע.
להרגיש ביטחון זה כמו לעמוד גבוה על קצהו של צוק, להביט קדימה אל המרחב העצום של העולם, ובו בזמן להסתכל למטה ולמעלה. הרוח מצליפה סביבכם, אבל אתם מושרשים היטב במקומכם. אתם מרגישים חזקים, אתם מסוגלים, ומוכנים להתמודד עם כל האתגרים שיעמדו בדרככם.
להיות יותר בטוחים,
זה לדמיין הצלחה. הקדישו רגע לדמיין את עצמכם מצליחים ביעדים שלכם, בין אם זה קשור לבחינות, לקידום, או לפתיחת עסק. תארו לעצמכם את התוצאות החיוביות, ותנו לרגשות ההצלחה הללו לשטוף אתכם.
ביטחון עצמי, הוא כמו אש חמה וזוהרת בלבכם. היא מקרינה החוצה, ממלאת את גופכם באנרגיה וכוח. אתם " לא רק חיים", אתם מרגישים חיים, ובלתי ניתנים לעצירה, כאילו שאתם מוכנים ויכולים לכבוש כל מכשול בדרך.
להיות יותר בטוחים,
זה לקחת סיכונים. זאת אופציה שנשמעת מפחידה, אבל זו גם דרך מצוינת לבנות ביטחון עצמי. התחילו עם סיכונים קטנים, כמו לנסות תחביב חדש, או הרצאה קטנה בפגישה סגורה, ובהדרגה התקדמו לסיכונים גדולים יותר, כמו הקמת עסק משלכם, או המשך מסלול קריירה חדש.
זה כמו התחושה של לעלות על במה, האורות הבהירים מאירים עליכם. ליבכם מחסיר פעימה מהתרגשות, אבל אתם שלמים ורגועים. אתם יודעים שאתם מוכנים, ושיש לכם את הכישורים להצליח.
להיות יותר בטוחים,
זה להקיף את עצמכם באנשים תומכים. אישית, אני רואה שזו אחת הנקודות החשובות ביותר. אנשים סביבנו יכולים לגרום לבניית הביטחון העצמי שלנו, וההפך. הקיפו את עצמכם באנשים שתומכים ומעודדים אתכם, והימנעו לחלוטין, מאלה שגורמים לכם לפקפק בעצמכם. היזהרו מאנשים שהם "פייק מוחלט", וחפשו מנטורים ומודלים לחיקוי שיתנו לכם השראה. חפשו אנשים שיכולים לעזור לכם לצמוח.
ביטחון עצמי, הוא כמו השמש הפורצת דרך העננים לאחר סערה. היא מאירה את כל מה שסביבכם, משליכה חום ומסבירה פנים. אתם מרגישים בטוחים, בידיעה שאתם יכולים לעמוד מול כל סערה שתבוא.
בכל הדרכים הללו, הרגשת ביטחון, היא כמו להתחבר לכוח פנימי, וחוסן שמאפשרים לכם לזרוח. זו הרגשה של להיות לגמרי חיים ונוכחים, מסוגלים לאמץ את כל האפשרויות של החיים בזרועות פתוחות.
ברגע שאתם תפסיקו לחשוב, מה כל אחד חושב עליכם,
אתם תמשכו את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם
כשאתם מפסיקים לדאוג מה כולם חושבים עליכם, אתם תמשכו את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם, והאנשים האלה יקבלו אתכם כמו שאתם. הם לא ינסו לשנות אתכם כך שתתאימו לציפיות שלהם. אתם תבנו מערכות יחסים עמוקות, ומשמעותיות יותר עם האנשים האלה, כי הם יראו אתכם אמיתיים.
למשוך את האנשים הנכונים אל חייכם, זה כמו לשתול גינה. בדיוק כפי שאתם בוחרים בקפידה את הזרעים שאתם רוצים לטפח, אתם חייבים גם לבחור את האנשים שאתם רוצים להקיף את עצמכם בהם. עליכם להכין את האדמה, לטפל בצמחים ולסלק כל פולשים לא רצויים.
כשאתם מטפחים את גינתכם, אתם מתחילים לראות את פירות העבודה שלכם. פרחים יפים פורחים, פירות וירקות טעימים מבשילים. באופן דומה, כאשר אתם משקיעים זמן ואנרגיה בטיפוח מערכות יחסים משמעותיות עם האנשים הנכונים, אתם מתחילים לראות את התגמולים. אתם חווים קשרים עמוקים יותר, שיחות משמעותיות ותחושת שייכות.
אבל בדיוק כמו בגינון, משיכת האנשים הנכונים לחייכם דורשת סבלנות, התמדה ונכונות להסתגל לנסיבות משתנות. ייתכן שתצטרכו לגזום כמה מערכות יחסים שכבר לא משרתות אתכם, או להתאים את הגישה שלכם כאשר אתם מתמודדים עם אנשים שונים.
בסופו של דבר, כמו שגינה מטופחת מביאה שמחה ויופי לחייכם, כך גם יחסים בריאים עם האנשים הנכונים.
אז מה זה אומר באמת?
משיכת האנשים הנכונים, חשובה לצמיחכם ולרווחתכם האישית. להקיף את עצמכם באנשים חיוביים, תומכים ובעלי דעות דומות, יכולה לעזור לכם להשיג את מטרותיכם, ועוזרת לכם להפוך לגרסה הטובה ביותר של עצמכם.
למשוך את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם,
זה לדעת מה אתם רוצים. כדי למשוך את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם, אתם צריכים לדעת, איזה סוג של אנשים אתם רוצים שיהיו בסביבתכם. זה לזהות את הערכים, תחומי העניין, המטרות שלכם, ולחפש אנשים שחולקים את אותם דברים. לדוגמה, אם אתם מעוניינים בכושר ובריאות, תוכלו להצטרף לחדר כושר, או לשיעור יוגה כדי לפגוש אנשים בעלי תשוקות דומות.
למשוך את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם,
עוד פעם, זה להיות עצמכם. אותנטיות היא המפתח למשיכת האנשים הנכונים אל חייכם. כשאתם נאמנים לעצמכם, אתם באופן טבעי, מושכים אנשים שמעריכים אתכם בגלל מי שאתם. לדוגמה, אם אתם נהנים לקרוא, השתתפו במועדון ספרים והיו עצמכם. סביר להניח שתתחברו לאחרים שחולקים את אותה תשוקה שלכם לקריאה.
למשוך את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם,
זה לא להיות מקובעים. יש לכם ראש פתוח לפגוש אנשים חדשים, ולנסות דברים חדשים. אתם אף פעם לא יודעים איפה אתם עשויים למצוא חבר או קשר חדש. לדוגמה, אם אתם מוזמנים לאירוע חברתי, אמרו כן! גם אם האירוע הוא מחוץ לאזור הנוחות שלכם. אתם עשויים לפגוש מישהו שיהפוך להיות לחלק חשוב בחייכם.
למשוך את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם,
כי זה נורא חשוב, אז עוד פעם, הקיפו את עצמכם באנשים חיוביים. האנשים שאתם מקיפים את עצמכם בהם, יכולים להשפיע באופן משמעותי על רווחתכם. חפשו אנשים חיוביים ותומכים, אשר מרימים אתכם ומעוררים אתכם. לדוגמה, אם יש לכם חבר שהוא תמיד שלילי וביקורתי, שקלו לבלות איתו פחות זמן, ובמקום זאת השקיעו זמן עם אנשים שמעודדים ותומכים בכם.
למשוך את האנשים הנכונים לחייכם,
אתם צריכים להיות חברים טובים בעצמכם. היו אדיבים, תומכים ואמינים. היו שם בשבילם כשהם צריכים אתכם. לדוגמה, אם חבר עובר תקופה קשה, הציעו להקשיב ולתמוך בו.
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Jozef Hyrja
Bratislava
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"I studied several other languages in the past, and I have to say, Sami is one of the best teachers I have ever met. It seems that his patience is never-ending and the system, which makes his students advance and acquire an amazing amount of vocabulary, is unique. Sami can be both strict and motivating, which is an ideal combination for a language teacher. I could not imagine online classes with such a big group of students, who on top of everything are beginners, but Sami mastered them with straight A’s."
Alexandra Petrášová
Bratislava
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“I started learning Hebrew because of my field work in tourism. If you listen to a foreign language on a daily basis, then you would want to speak it as well.
I get used to talking to native speakers, so when I knew that in
Bratislava there is a native speaker who teaches Hebrew, I didn't hesitate to register to his courses. I was always looking forward to the Hebrew lessons. It was not only about language, but also about the way Sami is teaching. From the very beginning, he aroused in me a respect for learning, so I was still feeling ready for his class.
At very first, writing was difficult for me but since I enjoyed the Hebrew lessons immensely, I did not intend to give up.
After a year of learning Hebrew, I was able to build alone a website in Hebrew. The effectiveness of Sami’s lessons is therefore demonstrable. Every Thursday, I liked to spend a few hours with Sam and my classmates. Learning Hebrew language gave me a lot of love for Hebrew and Israelis; it gave me fun and friendship, and a desire to continue learning until I reach fluent speaker level.
Finally, when my Israeli tourists praise my Hebrew, I keep telling them that I have the best teacher. :) באהבה “
Maria Marhefkova
Červený Kláštor, Pieniny
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Hi all current and future students of the State Language School, and especially
the students of the exotic languages, as Hebrew certainly is. I have not seriously
learned a foreign language in my life, unless I count Russian in primary school,
Latin in secondary school and German in high school. I didn't know what to expect
from learning Hebrew, but after a year I can say that the acquired knowledge and
the way of teaching exceeded my expectations.
We started regularly in September, but after a few lessons, the lockdown hit us all, a thing
which had its advantages and disadvantages in terms of learning Online.
Our teacher Sami gradually and patiently taught us the Hebrew letters, letter by letter,
to the and initially explained to us the peculiarities of this language.
Over time we were able to read the Hebrew text.
For me, it was a little worse with vocabulary and grammar (at my age), but we still made
an amazing progress overall.
Apart from our efforts, we certainly wouldn't have done it without Sami and his approach
towards us. We successfully passed tests after the first year, and is a fact that speaks of itself.
We are looking forward to September again!
Sami, thank you l! ... We will all continue leaning!
Bratislava
Iveta Zsigová
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"I have always been looking forward to the ivrit lessons with Sami,
the atmosphere was pleasant and cheerful, the program was always varied and interesting ... I don't think
anyone slept from boredom :).
Everyone could ask anything, and Sami was always willing to
patiently explain the ambiguities and help with any problem.
We all also appreciated his knowledge of Czech and Slovak, which
greatly facilitated the course of teaching.
Sami himself is a very friendly and cordial person.
Learning ivrit with him is not only "dry work", but to a large extent
also fun ... simply: meaningfully spent time, and as a result also
the joy of progress in the language."
Lubica Tomaštíková
Bratislava
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"Since my childhood, I have been intensively learning foreign languages.
The decisive factor in whether I immersed myself in the language or not,
was the attitude of my teachers. Sami himself is the best Hebrew teacher
one could wish for. Subsequently, each lesson with him will confirm that you
have chosen the best expert in the field, he is always well prepared for the lessons,
he can answer any question about the Hebrew language and its realities.
From lesson to lesson, Sami arouses in the student curiosity and desire to learn.
In addition, each of our classes whether it is Live in class or online,
it's always full of laughter and kind words. "
Mgr. Andrea Ratkošová
Bratislava
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"Sami is definitely one of the best tutors you will meet on your way to teaching ivrit.
He will expose to you the world of Hebrew language in a coherent and clear structure.
The system of his lessons is strict and logical, understandable for every beginner. At the same time, his knowledge is immensely rich for the advanced students.
Sami will give you the answer to all your questions «why? - למה? », To which you have previously received only an answer « because - ככה »."
Julia Belinska, MD
Bratislava
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"Sami is a brilliant teacher. Being proactive, always prepared for class,
he is genuinely concerned about the progress of each of his students and
applies an individual approach to each one of them, even in a group.
I was amazed how from the very first lesson he wasted no time and words and did his best,
and finally left me wondering how much can be learned in one lesson.
Yet, he never rushes the learning process and always stresses quality over quantity.
He delivers everything a student needs - he has a vision, a system how to teach,
he is a high motivator who encourages and appreciates, is ready to put in extra time and effort… The results are then in your hands...
Sami is an extraordinary teacher, one you will not encounter often. You will be fortunate to have such a teacher."
Ing. Vlastimil Jurkuliak
Bratislava
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"I consider Sami as one of my best teachers,
with whom I had the opportunity to meet.
I have precious memories of his Hebrew lessons and
an infinite gratitude to him for helping me to learn Hebrew.
He is an excellent and exceptional teacher who can motivate
his students to get the best results.
The lessons with him are intense, colorful and above expectations.
His lessons are definitely not a waste of time.
Each lesson with him moves the student who wants to work on
himself a significant step forward.
His passion and approach to students are exceptional,
that can make even miracles.
One of my biggest surprises was how quickly he taught us
to read and write.
I expected it would take us months, but he did it the first hour.
There was a pleasant atmosphere, friendly relations and
many nice surprises in our lessons.
There were also difficult moments, which I remember with a smile.
It is a great fortune to find a teacher like Sami.
I started learning Hebrew with Sami three years ago and today,
despite a one-year break, I can write to him in this beautiful language:
סמי, תודה רבה לך. אני לא אשכח את שיעורי העברית איתך
תודה על המוטיבציה, הסבלנות, הזמן שלך וגם על השיעורים
במכבסה של פיטר. אני שמחה שיכולתי ללמוד עברית
בזכותך החלום שלי התגשם
אתה המורה הכי טוב שלי
Eva Gernátová
Bratislava
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"To study, to understand, to apprehend, to read, to be able to speak and perceive
Hebrew as the language and scripture in which the words of God have been written
since the creation of the world, have been a huge challenge and an
unimaginable thing for me.
It worked for me with Sami.
He is excellent and invaluable, if someone teaches you a foreign language for
whom it is their mother tongue. As a teacher, Sami is very, very patient, with an
individual approach to each student, regardless of age.
He experienced every little progress with us and motivated us during every hour,
and these hours were very active, diverse and used to the last minute.
For Sami, teaching Hebrew is not a job, but a hobby,
and this is a huge enrichment his students".
מורים כמוך לא קל למצוא, תודה שהיית סבלני ועזרת לי להשתפר ,אתה המורה הכי טוב בעולם
Dr. Monika Zachar
Wien
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"I really enjoy Hebrew class with Sami.
He leads the lesson systematically and creatively and in such a
way that we work the whole time of the lesson with interest,
whether I am just called out to answer or not.
He can use the materials not only according to the assignment,
but also creatively and inspiring, and he can get the most out of all this for us.
I like that he wants us to really understand the specific grammar,
text or meaning we are just taking over, and he doesn't hesitate to go back
to the basics with us, to connect the new subject with the old and introduce
us to the wider context until he is sure we understood that. He can encourage
us and also reach our potential, that’s what good teachers do. :)
He prepares grammar materials for us outside of textbooks,
which help us train and use the language much more.
As he has Hebrew roots, that brings another dimension to the class.
Sometimes more, sometimes only marginally; we open topics from
Hebrew culture that offer a deeper level of language, thus giving
us the opportunity to "look behind the curtain" of this rich language
and culture, which gives me even more desire and motivation to learn
the language.
I also appreciate that, as a foreigner living in our country,
Sami has learned our language and is still improving in it.
This example also motivates us to "get along" more with Hebrew.
Thank you Sami."
Jana Brnova
Bratislava
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"I myself was fascinated by Sami as a teacher and as well as a person in the first hour.
I came to the language school with the expectation that in the first weeks I would only learn the alphabet, but to my surprise,
I knew the alphabet after the first class and after a few weeks I wrote and read my first sentences in Hebrew.
This was beyond all my imagination.
Sami teaches with enthusiasm, wholeheartedly and he loves it.
I constantly admire how he can explain Hebrew to us in Slovak, which is not his native language. It's not easy and Sami handles it well.
I feel his desire to teach us at every class.
I also really appreciate Sami's approach to us as students.
He does not differentiate between us, does not prefer or neglect anyone,
He creates the same space for everyone and devotes himself to us with the same commitment.
His attitude is constantly motivating, praise and encouragement are a pleasant support.
I appreciate Sami's patience, which encourages us when we are not doing well, as well as his willingness to help us and pass on as much as he can.
He himself is a great person who desires to see our progress forward and he approaches his work honestly and responsibly.
I like Sami's way of teaching and Hebrew lessons have become a valuable part of my life.
I highly recommend learning Hebrew with Sami".
Monika Fandliová
Bratislava
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"I am interested in Hebrew from religious reasons. I met
Sami a year ago at school, I still remember his first lesson.
I immediately appreciated that Sami is from Israel and our experience with modern
Hebrew is thus direct and authentic.
His approach is also individual within the class, thanks to his experience,
he can move forward all students in a larger group.
He knows what to ask each student, how to motivate,
how to use and guide their potential.
He is typically ignited and his conscience is contagious.
He can motivate any hesitant or passive listener, in some way,
me for example. He does not accept stagnation or a slow move forward.
Due to my personal hard times, I dropped out of my studies, but we have
recently made with Sami contact again.
During individual hours his approach even more solid to my degree,
in addition to the grammatical part, we look in detail at Tanach, where I
have the opportunity to know Lashon Kodesh and to which
I also get a deeper interpretation. Be’ezrat Hashem."
Todah Rabbah, Sami!
Michal Lieskovec
Bratislava
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"I started studying Hebrew a year ago with Sami.
Thanks to the energy that Sami puts into teaching, I manage it easily
simple conversation, not only orally but also in writing.
As it is a demanding language,Sami is patient and gives me enough
space to think.
He adapts his demands to the level of individual students,
which I appreciate.
Anyone who has the desire and enough space to study Hebrew,
I recommend that he try Hebrew courses with Sami.
Sami, thank you for your patience and helpfulness."
Judita Juhásová
Bratislava
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"The Hebrew language is exceptional and uniqueness,
which not everyone and everywhere has.
That is why Sami pushes it as exceptional and towards uniqueness.
This is demonstrated by him being able to find a way to which it
allows everyone to find a path to be able to make it.
When it comes to his students, results, it means a lot to him.
And that moves him to additional motivation and
gives him the energy to cope with the next shift.
I am glad that I got and took this opportunity.
And I thank you Sami for all your kindness, which you expressed
and which you have shown to me and to my family."
Thank you!
Mirka Jakubcikova
Bratislava
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"I have been studying Hebrew for 3 years.
I attended various schools that offered Hebrew language education.
The approach of the lecturer, who provides the teaching, is very important.
I was very connected with the Hebrew lessons I took with Sami.
He is a very friendly and understanding lecturer.
He can help, encourage and pass on a great deal of relevant knowledge
of the Hebrew language beyond the content of education.
He himself helped me to understand the Hebrew language and taught me to "move" in it.
I recommend that anyone who wants to learn the Hebrew language turn to Sami."
Thank you and I wish you good health and success.
Dr. Dasha Sarah Witzan, PhD.
Bratislava
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"I was very lucky when I came to school a few years ago in September, and I met my Hebrew teacher Sami. I liked that he was a 'native speaker',
straight from Israel, but his approach and the way he teaches literally fascinated me. His lessons are very varied, but at the same time systematic
and the time spent in his lessons is literally an experience for me, often a challenge, but also a mental relaxation.
His determination to teach us and to give us the maximum, is huge.
He himself is not only an amazing and loving teacher, but also a great person, with a huge dose of energy who can empathize and
is always willing to help. You could see that Sami does his work with joy, enthusiasm and love and passes on to us the maximum of
what he has learned and learned over the years.
Only because of his tireless patience, I do keep learning Hebrew and moving forward.
I am grateful to him and thank you for the opportunity to be one of his students.
Toda raba, Sami."
Tanya Mattova
Bratislava
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"I really liked Hebrew lessons.
We were a cheerful and creative class full of laughter.
We learned a lot of new things and our teacher
Sami also liked to talk about motivation, books, Kabbalah or Jewish holidays and culture.
He was patient with us and he wrote everything on the board, which we greatly appreciated,
as ivrit does not use vowels.
I recommend the lessons with Sami to all ivrit enthusiasts."
PaedDr. Monika Lašová, PhD.
Bratislava
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"I learned Hebrew language 10 years ago in Ulpan directly in Israel.
An amazing experience. Since it has been many years ago, I very much appreciated the opportunity to meet a
Hebrew teacher in person and revive this beautiful language. There is nothing better than the opportunity to repeat and verify
ambiguities in grammar with a person who is directly from Israel and at the same time speaks Slovak. This is great combination and
a great plus when your teacher understands and helps you to get acquainted in a language that is not easy at all.
Personally, I appreciate the most that I can call him, write to him and ask for his advice at any time. Sami, Toda raba."
Miro Paluch
Bratislava
